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The Drive by Hugger

Rosa Nell (I have changed her name to protect her privacy) is a retired lady living in south Alabama. She is a widow who has a comfortable home and a satisfying social life. She was a pretty girl who matured into a soft round woman. She and a couple of friends, Pauline and Evelyn, meet monthly for informal book club discussions and more often to try new restaurants and take field trips to interesting places.

One day Rosa Nell was in the front yard of her rural home. She had pulled weeds from her flower beds and then swept off her front porch and, broom in hand, started to go in. She saw a ratty old black pickup drive by on the road out front, pass her house, then back up and pull up in her driveway. A guy who looked to be in his late thirties, and as ratty as his old truck, got out and walked up to her. Without a word, he hugged her tightly, both arms wrapped around her. She was so startled she dropped the broom.

Then he walked back to his truck, and with one brief glance backward, drove off. Rosa Nell stood there speechless and confused. "Well," she thought, "I've heard of drive by shootings, but a drive by hugging? What on earth?"

She went in the house thinking what would happen if she called the sheriff's office. They would ask "Did you feel threatened? Did you resist? Did you know him? Did you get a license plate number?" No, no, and no. And a scruffy guy driving an old pickup? There were tons of them in the county. It was hard to explain, but she had felt no fear at all. It was like that guy had been a scared child hugging a teddy bear or his puppy. The sheriff's dept. might think she was daft or something. She decided to hold her tongue. She didn't say anything to her friends either.

After a couple of months she was raking leaves when the old pickup pulled up again and the scruffy guy approached her with his arms out and embraced her again. He held her tightly. He was weeping, his face was on her neck, she could feel tears wetting the ends of her hair. He sobbed so forlornly she gingerly patted him on the back and said, like talking to a child, "There, there, it'll be alright." His sobs abated and he staggered to his truck and drove away. She never saw him again until 3 years later when she passed the courthouse and saw him shackled, being led inside.

She got out of her car and as the deputy passed with the scruffy man, she said to him "It'll be alright." He said to her "Thank you, for everything. It'll never be alright, but thank you anyway." He gave her a sad crooked smile showing tobacco rotted teeth.
Rosa Nell cried all the way home.

susil

posted on Aug 5, 2010 9:33 PM ()

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it makes me wonder if he was a meth addict. rotten teeth are asign of
meth addiction.
comment by elderjane on Aug 6, 2010 12:29 PM ()
Rosa Nell thought it was tobacco, but the first thing I thought of was meth too.
reply by susil on Aug 7, 2010 8:19 AM ()
That's such a sweet, heartbreaking story.
comment by troutbend on Aug 6, 2010 11:58 AM ()
After Rosa Nell gave me permission to blog her story, she told her friend Pauline about the hugging man, and she says Pauline says "Oh, it was probably that guy at the cafe, the one you paid for his lunch." The ladies used to detour through a little town twenty miles away when they were coming home from a trip, to have coffee and pie at this hole in the wall place. One day they heard the owner say to the waitress to 'watch that guy in the corner, he'll try to skip out without paying.' So Rosa Nell, who had her back to the corner, never saw the guy, but she gave the waitress 10 dollars to pay for the man's tab. Pauline said the scruffy looking guy left looking puzzled--probably no one had ever treated him to anything in his whole life, and she could see through a window that he left in a raggedy old black pickup. Maybe he found out where Rosa Nell lived and wanted to thank her or something. So all that time Pauline had the probable answer.
reply by susil on Aug 7, 2010 8:31 AM ()
She must have reminded him of his mom or another loving woman from his life. It's also scary because, although he was benign, he might not have been. Poor soul.
comment by tealstar on Aug 6, 2010 5:21 AM ()
I was talking to a social worker once who told me that there are many people who never get a hug--or feel they can hug anyone else either.
That is a sad situation, because of the human need for that contact.
reply by susil on Aug 6, 2010 9:31 AM ()
comment by jondude on Aug 6, 2010 5:00 AM ()
reply by susil on Aug 6, 2010 9:33 AM ()

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