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Parenting & Family > Pets > A Doggie Death in the Family
 

A Doggie Death in the Family


image We said goodbye to Huxley the other day. Our twelve year old piebald dachshund needed to be euthanized so as not to suffer. If only we could do this for humans. Dr. Kevorkian, you were a persecuted man.

Making a decision such as this is heart-rending. To begin with, a pet is a member of one’s family. Secondly, YOU are the one deciding that he should live no more. Most people have trouble deciding what to order from a menu at a restaurant, let alone something as momentous as this. One can’t help but feel that to do such a thing is to play god and it is not a good feeling.

We all wrote something for Huxley. My daughter, who was actually his mom, produced a wonderful slide show with appropriate music. She made him a casket. I found an appropriate headstone as well as ground stones to cover the grave, which is in our small pet cemetery.


Just as with deceased humans, we want to remember the good things about the dear departed. He may have been a stubborn little pest who often caused us to be sleep-deprived, but he was a sweet boy, a good family protector, and he loved us.

Our pet cemetery – which I call Puss & Boot Hill – now holds two dogs and five cats. Each one was special and added to our lives in its own, unique way. Sleep well, little buddies.

posted on Sept 29, 2012 7:15 PM ()

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I remember when your other dog passed - can't remember her name though. Do you have any others or was Huxley and "only child"?
comment by catdancer on Oct 1, 2012 3:00 PM ()
That was Sophie. We had adopted her from Best Friends Animal Sanctuary when she was already up in years. She and Huxley now lie next to each other with nice stones. We're taking a break from dogs now for awhile. Thanks for your comment.
reply by steve on Oct 1, 2012 3:13 PM ()
Sorry,Steve as you know we gone through with this.This is our second one.
We had him cremated and the ashes are back in a nice little box.
Had a small celebration of life.His couch was filled with toys,pictures,cards etc.
We will probably keep the ashes for now in the house.
But time to put things away.We also have a grave stone and a sculpture for the first and will do same for this one.I liked the name of your Pet Cemetery.
We all gone through with this.Take care.
comment by fredo on Sept 30, 2012 3:43 PM ()
Thanks Fredo.
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 5:21 PM ()
It is so hard to do but much kinder in the long run. You are right about
Dr. K.
comment by elderjane on Sept 30, 2012 2:42 PM ()
Why let someone suffer when they have no chance of recovery????
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 5:21 PM ()
Sorry about Huxley--Alfredo and Mike lost their dog of 13 years, Buffy, last week--they had the same decision to make--losing a pet is rough--most times harder than losing an acquaintance
comment by greatmartin on Sept 30, 2012 9:36 AM ()
The dogs are harder to lose; they're so innocent.
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 9:52 AM ()
comment by jondude on Sept 30, 2012 7:33 AM ()
Preciate it, Jon.
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 8:38 AM ()
Huxley looks so wise in that photo. I always told my students that it was the last thing we can do the show them how much we love them. Doesn't make it any easier.
comment by catdancer on Sept 29, 2012 10:50 PM ()
He was a wise doggie, in fact.
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 6:56 AM ()
comment by maggiemae on Sept 29, 2012 9:37 PM ()
Thanks MM.
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 6:53 AM ()
What a nice send-off.
comment by troutbend on Sept 29, 2012 9:29 PM ()
We were all snuffling...
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 6:54 AM ()
Losing an animal is up there with major losses in my view. I had to put my tuxedo cat, Sniff, down a few years ago. I still cry over it in vulnerable moments, but my vet told me he would die in horrible pain if I did not. Huxtable was beautiful.
comment by tealstar on Sept 29, 2012 8:07 PM ()
Yes, he was a handsome boy...
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 6:54 AM ()
It's a tough decision, but it's also tough to know that you waited too long. RIP Huxley.
comment by jjoohhnn on Sept 29, 2012 7:28 PM ()
You're right about that, for sure.
reply by steve on Sept 30, 2012 6:55 AM ()

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