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Life & Events > Relationships > Throw Rocks at Them
 

Throw Rocks at Them


"boys are stupid, throw rocks at them" - click here for the game

I guess I should start with so are girls, women and men. And one man in particular has my panties in a twist. I know his grandmother passed away a few weeks ago, I know he's been unemployed for even more weeks, I know he's exhausted after a week in the desert, I know he's stressed out BUT I feel neglected.

I am not a needy girl and he's making me feel needy. I need to know what is going on. I talked to TBD briefly on Tuesday afternoon and we talked about the parties we had this weekend and he seemed less than enthused. He told me he was going to call me on Wednesday. Not a phone call, not a text message, not even an email came my way yesterday.

Okay, maybe he's just tired from his vacation and the 12 hour drive back.

But now, being the neglected girlfriend, my mind is allowed to wander and I wonder what's going on. After a week to dwell in the desert has he decided that we shouldn't be together? Is he stressed that he can't afford to take me out like he promised to do for taking care of his dogs? Did he cheat on me and he's not ready to face me?

Yes, these are the thoughts that go through my head when too much time has passed. I haven't seen him since August 22nd when we had lunch and we haven't spent any real time together since August 8th.

I don't like having things left hanging. It's driving me a little crazy. One of my friends told me it's because he's a Gemini - The Twins - being of split passions and feelings. Well, I'm a hot blooded Sagittarian who wants answers and attention! LOL


ahhhhhhhhh, maybe I just need to cool off...

posted on Sept 4, 2008 11:52 AM ()

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UGH! I hate when the mind goes a mile a minute because we think up some of the worst things imaginable usually. And I'm SURE that's the case.
comment by mrsstu on Sept 5, 2008 11:15 AM ()
More like dogs that are not TBD's! I am hoping that things are better this weekend!
comment by spicybitch on Sept 5, 2008 7:35 AM ()
I am feeling the way you are too right now. GD boys. I am sorry that you're being neglected too. I am going to hang out with Spike for a long time. he's the love of my life after all.
comment by spicybitch on Sept 4, 2008 8:19 PM ()
I don't think you need to worry about him, hinestly. What i've learned over the years is that guys need to have they're 'Rock' to sit on and ponder over things that is fogging they're mind. Just leave him have that space and he'll come running back, but usually without the slightest knowledge that he worried you. Best bet, don't let him know, just welcom him with open arms and wait to see if he talks, if not leave it, don't ask.
comment by lynnie on Sept 4, 2008 12:42 PM ()
I totally didn't mean to say insane there... I meant to say you are totally entitled to feel the way you do. No idea how I slipped up on that one... perhaps it was due to the orders being barked my way at work?
comment by kristilyn3 on Sept 4, 2008 12:06 PM ()
I would be worried too - that's my nature though. WORRY WART!
Is he back now and he hasn't called?
It could be any combo of the things you mentioned... If I were you I would call/text/email him to see what was going on. There is no harm in that! You want to know where you stand, and once you do, you will feel better.
You are not insane.
comment by kristilyn3 on Sept 4, 2008 12:04 PM ()

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