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A Sundog Moment


You may wonder how I found time to read; but I read a lot at night because sleep often eludes me.

I came across this book quite by accident while looking for a David Baldacchi novel.  "A Sundog Moment" is the first book of his sister, Sharon Baldacci.  

I will be honest; I could not put this book down.  It's the story of a beautiful woman, Elizabeth Whitaker, in her prime, who has led a charmed life.  She is still passionately in love with her wildly successful husband; she has a lovely daughter about to leave for college; in short, her life could not be better.

Then, suddenly, her world shatters with the onset of frightening symptoms: dizziness, disorientation,  lack of control of her body.  Elizabeth Whitaker has multiple sclerosis, a degenerative neuro-muscular disease with "no known cure."

Her journey from that point forward is never the same.  Her relationships with her husband, her mother, her daughter, and her friends all shift, not always for the better, as Elizabeth begins her journey of denial, anger, frustration and finally acceptance.

In the span of some three or four years, she goes from being self sufficient, to a brace, to a cane, to two canes, to a walker with the implication that she will soon be in a wheelchair.  During the process, her faith is stretched to the point that she decides there is no God.

Eventually, she leaves her husband, makes a decision to try marijuana, runs afoul of the law, and sees her daughter fall in love with a man who carries the defective gene for ALS.

This book could not have been written so beautifully and so authentically by someone who had never experienced a catastrophic illness.  The author was herself diagnosed with MS some twenty-five years ago.

I totally and without reservation recommend it, especially for those facing the uncertainty of a catastrophic illness, who question why bad things happen to good people, and who ponder that age-old question of fate versus free will.

 

posted on June 10, 2012 6:57 PM ()

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My niece has MS. It is heart breaking.
comment by elderjane on June 11, 2012 1:42 PM ()
Yes, it is. I have known several people with the disease, some in my family and some friends.
reply by redimpala on June 11, 2012 4:54 PM ()
I may have to see if it's available on Kindle....that's where all my books are! My mom was diagnosed with MS when she was about 60. For many years prior to that, they thought she was suffering from "post polio syndrome". So hers was a rather late diagnosis. She died in 2003. I will say, she was one of the fortunate ones who had MS. She did not have any associated "pain syndrome" with it and hers was a slowly progressing type. She ended up in a care center, because she fell, hit her head so hard on one side that she fractured her skull on the other side, and from that point on, she could not even turn herself over in bed anymore. Up to that point, she had lived alone in a small apartment. Thanks for the recommendation! And I'm glad you find time to read....now you need to work on the sleeping! LOL
comment by dakmom on June 11, 2012 5:44 AM ()
As I get older, I find I require less and less sleep. Not everyone has the pain; this woman's biggest problem was extreme fatique, though she did have excruciating pain at times also. I have had a great deal of personal experience with friends and family with MS. I have seen all different phases from the very aggressive to the milder forms. So sorry about the fall your mom took. That had to be heartbreaking for your family and you.
reply by redimpala on June 11, 2012 8:28 AM ()
From what you know about me, do you think I would like the book? I'll look next library visit.
comment by solitaire on June 11, 2012 4:37 AM ()
To be perfectly honest, I doubt it. You would probably prefer her brother's books. They are full of action, mystery, and plot twists.
reply by redimpala on June 11, 2012 8:29 AM ()
That's exactly what I thought - where did she get time to read! Hah! I'll put this book on my list, thanks for the recommendation.
comment by troutbend on June 10, 2012 9:28 PM ()
I read also while I sit and wait for the kids to finish their gymnastics and swim lessons.
reply by redimpala on June 10, 2012 9:57 PM ()
Laura, you are just going to love this book.
reply by redimpala on June 10, 2012 9:53 PM ()

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