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Life & Events > Relationships > Love & Comfort from a Proper Stranger
 

Love & Comfort from a Proper Stranger

I can still see those gorgeous blue eyes as she leaned over me, asking if there was anything she could do for me.  They were the largest, most beautiful eyes I had ever seen. They reminded me of the color of the ocean they were so bright, sparkling and clear. And there was such love and compassion in them.

No one was paying much attention to me. They were all going about their various jobs, not speaking to one another and especially not to me...with the exception of this one woman, who suddenly stopped what she was doing and leaned over me.

In the meantime, I was being strapped down with my arms extended parallel to my body, and they were being restrained as well.I remember thinking this must be what it is like to be executed. Soon, drugs would even be dripping into my veins.
They had walked me into this sterile, cold room with the huge, imposing light directly above where they placed me.  It was the first time I had ever been "walked" into a room like this; I thought that was unusual.
I was scared, the most scared I can ever remember being, plus I had no idea what today's events held for my future. My condition was sufficiently serious enough that I was having a major procedure rather than the less invasive one. In addition, my condition was the worry of every woman everywhere. I know the lovely woman with the blue eyes could sense that, which is why she asked me if there was anything she could do for me.
"Would you recite the 23rd Psalm with me?"  I asked.
"I would be honored to," she replied.
So, we began.  Somewhere about the time that we reached, "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death..." I drifted away.
A few months later, I had occasion once more be at that location, and I saw her again.

"I remember you," she said.  "You asked me to recite the 23rd Psalm with you."

"And I remember those beautiful, kind, blue eyes looking right into mine," I replied. "They were such a calming and comforting source of strength for me at that moment."

She thanked me; but I wanted her to know that she had made a difference for me at that serious crossroad of my life.

Funny, I hadn't thought of her in over ten years.  However, yesterday, I was reading a book about a young woman who was about to undergo a very serious surgical procedure, and suddenly that lovely face and those blue eyes were right there gazing down at me again.   We formed a bond that day, and it remains with me yet as a source of kindness and comfort.
You see, she was the nurse who assisted when I had my cancer surgery.


posted on Apr 12, 2012 6:56 AM ()

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Our experience with the nurses when Bobby had his surgery was a good one.
My sister in law is the kind of nurse that you mentioned. She can move you
without hurting you and is kind and compassionate.
comment by elderjane on Apr 13, 2012 6:47 AM ()
I spent a lot of time on the 9th floor during my chemo because I kept picking up infections from the chemo lowering my immunity. I have never had better care. The really good nurses are the ones who manage to maintain that compassion and caring for their patients.
reply by redimpala on Apr 13, 2012 9:29 AM ()
comment by jondude on Apr 12, 2012 2:50 PM ()
reply by redimpala on Apr 12, 2012 5:50 PM ()
There I thought you were talking about Mr.Blue Eyes Frank Sinatra
That was very nice for her to do this.A cup of kindness goes a long way.
comment by fredo on Apr 12, 2012 10:26 AM ()
It really does, and she provided it to me at a time when I really needed it.
reply by redimpala on Apr 12, 2012 5:51 PM ()
As Blanche in "Streetcar" said, "I have always depended on the kindness of strangers." I certainly have!
comment by greatmartin on Apr 12, 2012 8:28 AM ()
Her kindness that day certainly was a comfort to me.
reply by redimpala on Apr 12, 2012 9:22 AM ()
It's marvelous how a long-lost memory can be triggered.
comment by kitchentales on Apr 12, 2012 7:00 AM ()
It really is, and it comes back so vividly.
reply by redimpala on Apr 12, 2012 7:09 AM ()

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