Was one of the things my husband said to me early on in our relationship, that made me piss myself laughing. We were talking about fighting, as in fisticuffs. He explained that he had been beat before, hence he wasn’t a cherry.

I have blogged before. Many times.

Hence I ain’t no cherry either.

I miss it. Blogging. Not my cherry.

Time is spent elsewhere. Or I should say I allocate my spare time elsewhere. I don’t seem to get enough of it. Well, enough for me. I am quite a solitary person. Which pisses my husband off.

Understandably so, sometimes.

Lately, when I get two days off in a row, which happens more in my new job schedule, he goes and spends the night with his Uncle and Aunt. He’s helping them add onto their singlewide. Needless to say we both love and deserve the break from each other. Otherwise, minus our work hours, we are together every minute of the day.

And yes, sometimes there is a period after each of those five words.

It gets tiring. We get bitchy.

Throw in the rollercoaster of one of us being Bi-Polar.

And the other one of us trying to “balance” themselves out enough to deal with it.

And Life can get, get…not good.

Happily Ever After.

That is what I am aiming for.
I believe we all are.
Happily ever after not just in marriage but in Life itself.