Get a reverse mortgage. Take the cash and bank it. What's left after you go is split anyway you desire. (But use some of it while you live to do your 'bucket list.')
Hobbie, you never met 'Buddy,' but Buddy is a sweet kitty who went to the Rainbow Bridge yesterday. Buddy is going to be there to greet you, along with Bunjii, Jabberwocky, Ahmose, Chauncey, Goody-Two-Shoes, Yellowboy, Beery, Bee-Bop, Tehuti, Bubby, Bisbeebird, Trotsky, and a host of little finches. Some day, me too.
What is there to say? I am comforted that Buddy's sweet soul will be there when Hobbie crosses that bridge. We just have to believe. That's all there is. Our condolences.
I quit for four weeks but started again when Hobbie's terminal diagnosis came back from the lab. I will try quitting again. Good luck fighting the urge to overeat. That comes with the habit-fight.
I was in a big box hardware the other day and a woman near me asked a clerk if they had any Tomato plants yet. The clerk said that it was far too early and if she planted any they would surely die in the next frost. The gal replied, "Are you kidding? Go outside and feel it! It's in the seventies!" They just don't know, do they?! LOL
We have been taking good care of Hobbes, who has a terminal condition called "wet" Feline Infectious Peritonitis (FIP). It is sad to see him slipping from us. If I don't post much, that is the reason.
So glad you were not in their path!
Waiting for the counter. It always happens. Someone will issue the results of their tests and data that swings it the other way, probably sponsored by the sugar cane farmers. Oh well.
Is it 'extramarital' sex if you are not married? Hmmmm?