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Life & Events > A Film That Should Be Shown at Every School
 

A Film That Should Be Shown at Every School





This should be mandatory for everyone to see at school.






The Weinstein Company
Attacked just for being different: Alex Libby's daily beatings from classmates on his school bus are so disturbing, director Lee Hirsch stops filming at one point.


The film, which tells the story of five victims of bullying, should be required viewing for everyone ages 8 to 18. In fact, it wouldn't hurt to make the documentary mandatory for parents, teachers and school officials as well. (Unfortunately, the MPAA denied the filmmakers' petition for a PG-13 rating because of concerns over profanity. The distributor is leaving it up to individual theaters to set admission policies.)
Why are these particular kids under attack? Most are shy or considered somehow "different," the victims of prejudice and ignorance.
STORY: 'Bully' documentary offers grist for national conversation
VIDEO: 'Bully' released without rating
We get only fleeting glimpses of the bullies themselves. An analysis of their motivations is for another movie.
But we do get a disturbing look at the lack of accountability that surrounds the bullying environment. One assistant principal deserves audience boos for her cheerful clueless-ness. Director Lee Hirsch might have sought to include a more sympathetic school official, because surely they exist. But this documentary does not strive for even-handedness. His focus is on tormented children.
About the movie

Bully
***1/2 out of four

Director:Lee Hirsch
Distributor: The Weinstein Co.
Rating: Unrated
Running time: 1 hours, 34 minutes
Opens today in select cities
The camera simply rolls as kids tell their stories, documenting the ordeals of boys such as Alex, a 12-year-old from Sioux City, Iowa, who is repeatedly threatened and pummeled on his daily school bus rides. When the abuse grows more punishing, Hirsch does something few documentarians do: He turns off the camera. Then he shows the footage to Alex's parents and school authorities. The boy's shaken mother and father are met with empty promises when they question why schools can't be safe havens.
Ty, an 11-year-old from Perkins, Okla., took his life in May 2010 after enduring years of cruelty from his classmates. His grief-stricken parents launched an anti-bullying organization, Stand for the Silent, to try to prevent similar tragedies. Ty is featured only in photographs and through the remembrances of his best buddy.
Attending one of the organization's vigils is 16-year-old Kelby, ostracized and taunted after she comes out as a lesbian in her small Oklahoma town of Tuttle. A former star athlete, the gregarious teen gives up sports after others refuse to be on a team with her. She attempts suicide three times before finding a small group of friends.
Tyler, a 17-year-old from Murray County, Georgia, hanged himself after years of abuse from kids and prolonged indifference by school officials. After his death, his parents hold a community meeting demanding accountability from the school, but no school authorities attend.
Police refuse to consider bullying as a motive in the actions of 14-year-old Ja'Meya. The Yazoo County, Miss., girl was picked on so often that she brandished a handgun. Though she never hurt anyone, she was incarcerated and charged with multiple felonies.
Bully forces audiences to face actions that are unthinkable, inexcusable and excruciatingly sad. It offers no solutions, only the testimony of brave youths. But by presenting an intimate glimpse into the dark heart of cruelty, the film hopes to inspire substantive discussion among parents, children and educators on how to deal with this dire and insidious problem.

posted on Mar 30, 2012 8:50 AM ()

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Back again-- Bullying is such a serious problem. I think part of the reason is our standards or norms for behavior have changed- for many reasons. Just spend one afternoon watching something like Maury. No one talks; they shout, and the more cursing, the better the audience responds. In "our day," the topics of Maury's shows were not talked about publicly let alone broadcast all over the country. Kids CAN and DO misbehave in schools with few consequences, while teachers suffer serious consequences for trying to maintain order in their classrooms.
comment by dragonflyby on Mar 31, 2012 9:25 AM ()
Totally agreed there Dottie.Great comment
reply by fredo on Mar 31, 2012 1:09 PM ()
Indianapolis made it on the "to be shown here" list. I doubt if I see it. Strange, but in all my years of teaching, I seldom witnessed any bullying, even in the hallways.
comment by solitaire on Mar 31, 2012 5:08 AM ()
different generation.I also have not seen any bully in my school days.
reply by fredo on Mar 31, 2012 5:43 AM ()
It is horrible. My grandson, Blake, who has a genius level IQ was bullied for being different. It has had an effect on his whole life and has only
a few friends now as an adult.
comment by elderjane on Mar 31, 2012 4:54 AM ()
Sorry,to hear that.
reply by fredo on Mar 31, 2012 5:43 AM ()
This is so sad... I will add it to my netflix queue...
comment by kristilyn3 on Mar 30, 2012 12:10 PM ()
Guess every one will be looking at this.I do want to see the fully documentary on this.
reply by fredo on Mar 30, 2012 1:36 PM ()
If these bullies discover that it is not being accepted by their peers, they will stop. Bullies are essentially cowards. As soon as they realize their behavior is unnaceptable in the eyes of others, they will stop. And parents have got to be willing to open their eyes to the fact that this is a very, very serious problem and discipline their children if they are bullying someone. We now know that this a really a matter of life or death.
comment by redimpala on Mar 30, 2012 9:42 AM ()
l do not think that this will stop any but will help.It is not going to change much as we still have these Bullies out there.Sad as they want attention and the only way to get it is this.
Do hope that the student get some information what is going on in our society.
reply by fredo on Mar 30, 2012 1:38 PM ()
This is on my wait list at netflix.
comment by dragonflyby on Mar 30, 2012 9:09 AM ()
yes,we are all going to see this.Will be awhile but soon.
reply by fredo on Mar 30, 2012 1:38 PM ()

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