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Can you get it back after its been broken?What do you think.(in a relationship)Time,proving oneself,or not?

posted on July 24, 2013 11:09 AM ()

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I believe that people can change but it is hard and you will have to become
trusting again which is very hard to do.

I would have to get the
person in counseling and see that they were trying very hard.

comment by elderjane on July 27, 2013 4:14 PM ()

I'm with Fredo on this one

comment by kevinshere on July 24, 2013 9:58 PM ()

reply by fobstateside on July 25, 2013 2:30 PM ()

well not sure if you can get back,but maybe needs to be worked on.
If it happens more than once,well then dump him or her and start life a new.I am not sure where this is going.My mind works so fast and get ahead of me.Cannot trust it.

comment by fredo on July 24, 2013 1:09 PM ()

it's been 25 yrs together.I just don't know anymore..

reply by fobstateside on July 25, 2013 2:32 PM ()

It's like when someone says "I've forgiven what they've done, but I'll never forget it." The only reason you might be able to trust them going forward is if you knew they learned a lesson from it, and would never do that again. But you'd always keep a watchful eye for a repeat, so I think the answer is 'no, you can't get it back exactly like it was.'

comment by kitchentales on July 24, 2013 11:52 AM ()

I agree.Always lookin for something to happen...

reply by fobstateside on July 25, 2013 2:30 PM ()

People don't change for no reason. So talk doesn't cut it. But if a person is motivated to change his/her behavior (getting clean or sober for example), meaningful change can happen and the "new" person may become trustworthy.

comment by jjoohhnn on July 24, 2013 11:27 AM ()

I hope we can work it out it's been half my life with this person.

reply by fobstateside on July 25, 2013 2:33 PM ()

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