Ya ya ya... I judge everything as I see it. I'll even tell everything as I see it... EVERY single time! What I read on other "blog treads" means nothing to me really. I know the truth.

1) The first time I seen a "major problem" with Debbie (BusyMidMichmom), was that day she was decided to "bang her head" on the wall for hours.. Red Flag, but hey she was looking good I wanted it to work out.

2) Then, I don't know why.. but she decided to spend hours stabbing my "waterbed". I had no clue why, but at some point she called me in to help. Took a long time to drain the bed, and fix the leaks.

3) I learned, she was fired from her teaching job.. the papers said "she was contrary to students and teachers". She had some parent (and teacher) complaints. She lost everything and moved in with me.

4) She thought she had cancer. Ok, I took her to the docs constant then. All said she didn't. And even years later when I lived in Florida, she wrote me she was "dying" of cancer. Not true, not even close.

5) She had major "court battles" with both her "previous" ex's. Her son said she pulled knives on him, and she was court ordered to therapy. She wasn't even allowed to be around another man (same house as son) unless married. This was all court ordered.

6) Once living with me, the suicide attempts were "CONSTANT".

7) The first, were her filling her mouth with pills. I couldn't count the times I had to hold her down.. and pull a mouthful of pills out.

8)Things started to get worse. One day.. she was in the room... lit herself on fire. yep, here I was sitting at the computer.. and I had to run and put her out. Imagine what it's like, for someone to watch his "girlfriend" suddenly go up in flames?

9) I have guns.. well one day, she grabbed a 20 guage shotgun of mine. She had it to her head. I was sitting at the computer. She said... "GARY WHERE ARE THE SHELLS"? I had them hidden, but tossed one behind the dresser as she begged to get a shell. She said "You want me to die"? I said NO, but you are being stupid again.. and I play no games. She loaded the gun... and waited for my "reaction". My reaction was this... (I knew she was playing games) Do what your gonna do, I love ya but I won't put up with this crap... Suddenly she had me get the gun... and we sat and hugged.

10) Soon after, she resented me. Why? Because I was with HER, like I am here. I don't change. I had to call 911 twice because she had a mouth full of pills. I felt she was "really" off the deepend, and I knew she would kill herself. She was taken away.

11) Well, finally she was "super" pissed at me. She spent one day hitting herself in the face, and my autistic son heard yelling. he called 911. Cops came, and I went to jail for something she did herself.

12) Court, Debbie admitted she did it to herself at first (to the lawyers and all). But at that point, she had her ex's causing legal problems to her. She did an "about face" and lied.

13) I was arrested on a "domestic assault" I didn't do. I spent one night in jail, and was cleared of all charges. She did it all HERSELF, and she knows it. She was hitting herself in the face, and made the "tiny" mark I went to jail for.

14) After that, I turned against her. I'm not trying to do anything against her really, but damn well I will say the truth. She got really crazy then, talking about killing her ex's, taking her daughter and her off a cliff in her car. I had enough... I did NOT care anymore. She was living in my house, and I was gonna make sure she "moved out". She was super "mean" to my kids (and hers).. and I wanted her OUT! And bigtime!

My kids had problems, and she was like a NAZI! I got to a point, I wanted her OUT, and I would make sure she would be out. I was only with her less then a year, we even married. Was the biggest mistake of my life.

Ya ya ya... you all believe what you want. I know the truth, and have never lied here. I don't care what anyone thinks... I know the "deal". Hate or love me... truth is truth..

I tried for ya Debbie, I don't now...
Gary