Domestic Violence

Interesting subject. I was just reading "Draco's" blog.

First, I'll say it's "wrong" for a man to hit a woman. In any situation, for any reason. I never have, and never will.

However, there is another side too. Many women, think/feel they can do whatever they want to the guy.. and not have a problem. Guys are very reluctant to call the police when a woman is going crazy on them. Women will call on a guy in a heartbeat, and sometimes even lie.

Take "Debbie" on here. While we were together.. she never had a problem "punching me", or throwing a bottle.. or even pulling a knife. She pretty much knew, I wasn't gonna do chit. She knew I wouldn't call the cops, she knew she could get away with whatever. Basically, when she was "off" like that I was stuck to basically defending myself. Hold her wrists to keep her from hitting me or something.

Why is it, so many are so willing to listen to the "woman" and assume the man was the "bad one"? That one always got me. Just cause they are the "weaker" sex? Heck, there was dozens of times when with "Debbie" I thought about calling in an assault (never did). Only times I ever called in her was when she was in her frequent "suicide" mode. To me, that was for her own safety.

I'm just saying.. domestic violence goes both ways..

Now I am certain some of you have read my blogs against Debbie (Busymidmichmom). I am certain you have read her blogs against me (I don't read them for the most part.. but know they are there). It should be obvious, we had a short but rocky relationship.

Most of you, choose not to make comments. I don't care either way. I don't even care when Debbie comments. Basically, I know the truth. Write if you want, I'll just say my "thoughts" as always. If you are writing to tell me to "never" say anything about her, it will fall on a "deaf" ear. That I can promise. I don't purposely go out of my way to talk about her, lol.. I'd rather not think of that wench really. But if I hear something she said, or someone wants the issues to come up.. I'll say what I feel. Exactly what I feel. And I'd swear on a stack of Bibles whatever I say is the truth.

She came into my life, and put me and my family through a world of hell. Believe me, I haven't said a a quarter of the chit. I'll speak when I want.. and that's one thing nobody will stop me from doing.

Just wanted to let you know where I stand on this issue...
Gary