Yadolla....

I'm gonna tell a little story about this guy. Bear with me, everything I write has "meaning" somewhere towards the end.

Yadolla was in "Afghanistan" when our bombs started dropping. Yadolla was always in the "chats" (back when they seemed to be more popular). Yadolla is "so anti-American", you wouldn't believe it. He HATES us! He wants all Americans "DEAD", and he always did everything to "speak against US", and to get others to believe his way. I heard much from him, and I 100% believe he was living there.

Now if you read my posts, I really don't back down about "any" issue. I like to talk about them, but if I think your a "fuck head", I sure got no problem saying. Both "Yadolla" (I started calling him Yad), and I have the same "cocky ass attitude".

Butting heads, is not even the "word" for what we had going. We "dissed' eachother in "chat's, e-mails, Im's" all over. I never met someone I hated so much online, and all knew. He felt same about me. When we both were in a chat, there were 30 people or so. All shut up to listen to us.

I always called him a "Turbin wearing Camel Jockey". To me he was a "Muther fucking Mulem" that just wanted us dead. He owned "Camels too", lol.. talked about them much. Trust me though, as much as I said against him, he did me too.

Yad and I talked for several years. I haven't in awhile since I changed servers.

Over time, him and I started to understand eachother better. Suddenly, when we talked in "private", there wasn't a fight. he is "still anti-American", and I still think he's a "sand nigger",,, but what else happened.

We started talking "less and less" in the public forum. I was able to "relate" alot of American ideas, and he was able to relate to me his thoughts living there.

We actually became good friends. We will not "agree", but we both began to like eachother. In "private" we both talked very "civil". It was like "Hi Yad, what's up today?", "Not much Gary.. how are your kids?". We kinda "crossed that boundry, when we talked to eachother we were friends.

If we went to a "chat", it was different. He still had "his" agenda, and I had mine too. His was "against America", mine for it". He will admit to me "what his people do isn't always right", I admit the same about "America". We never once were civil to eachother in chats. But by then we usually had a private chat going too. And we were "cool" to eachother.

I don't trust that "Muslem" flucck. Not as far as I can spit. I doubt he does to me either. The cool thing was, (I feel) we both came to respect eachother as people. I truely MISS talking to him. I also consider him a friend. We don't agree about most, but I feel both learned a bit about the other cultures, and reasons. On both sides.

We both found eachother to be "real people" in the end. Just he has his side, I have mine. That won't change. Think of WW2,, Germans killing Americans, Americans killing Germans. Under different "circumstances", most likely both would get along with the other.

Had I never took the time to "talk" with YAD, I wouldn't know him. ANOTHER reason free "speech" is important! No I didn't change YAD, but I had an impact. He had one on me as well.

Take care all, Gary