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Lonely Tonight

It's been a rough day with the trip to town. My doctor and my physical therapist tell me I am getting better. My body tells me I could die any minute. Ouch!!!!! Pain!!!!!

Whenever I hurt this much, I really miss my Hubby who is out on the road as usual in his truck. I haven't seen him for weeks. Haven't seen my dog, Annie, either as she is with him. Ohhhh... I will be sooooo glad when they get back home. Hopefully, they will be home on Thursday.

MEN... they need lessons in how to respond to a wife. I tell him, through my sobbing, I need him to come home and take care of me. What do I get from his end of the phone? SILENCE!!!! So what am I to think? Do I think that I said something wrong or that he isn't that overjoyed about coming home to a hurting wife? Or.... is it that his brain just hasn't processed what I have said and needs some time to think about it? What he should have said was... "Yes, honey, I will take care of you and make you feel better. And I will also get the house all clean for you and cook you a nice meal." Geez.... that is what I would say if he were the one staying home and not feeling well. I think their moms should have had a talk with these guys and told them just how they need to treat wives. I don't have a son or I would give him a talking to even if he didn't need it. lol

Okay... enough of that rant. I'll be better tomorrow.

Ya know, I started out in a bad mood this morning. Before I got out of bed, I hurt and I realized I had to get up and go to town for a torture session. That was almost enough to keep me in bed. Then, the first thing I do every morning is to open the curtains. What did I see this morning? TWO INCHES OF SNOW!!!!! It is April and why am I seeing two inches of freshly fallen snow and more on the way? I'm about to give up on spring coming. It is sooooo cold here or at least, it feels sooooo cold. I think I'm living in Alaska.

Well... this blog is way too long and way tooo negative. I've complained about my pain, the weather, and men. I better stop now until I find something positive to say.

Annie :o)

posted on Apr 8, 2008 10:21 PM ()

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Just get it all out Annie... sometimes we just need to vent!
comment by artisticgypsy on Apr 10, 2008 5:55 AM ()
Oh, Annie, your recuperation is tough, I know. My heart goes out to you. Keep the faith, and try and keep hopeful and positive. Sending you a (((BIG HIG)))!
comment by marta on Apr 9, 2008 1:37 PM ()
I hate that your so lonesome and by yourself. Wish I lived closer..I'd come cheer you up..
comment by elfie33 on Apr 9, 2008 1:35 PM ()
Look at it in a positive way--he was probably at a loss on how to comfort you. Men do have a difficult time showing their true feelings and have a difficult time expressing the right words. I too hope that the torture sessions will eventually become more therapy renewal sessions!
comment by angiedw on Apr 9, 2008 7:06 AM ()
JR was probably thinking that he wished he could be there right then to take care of you. It probably hurts him to know you are alone while he is working. I hope these torture sessions start making you feel better soon.
comment by elkhound on Apr 9, 2008 4:32 AM ()
hope you get feeling better soon. i am sure your hubby wants to be right there by your side and will be soon.
butterfly
comment by butterfly1969 on Apr 9, 2008 1:48 AM ()
Annie, I have a son and will give him a good talking to on your behalf. I hope you feel better very soon!
comment by hopefields on Apr 8, 2008 10:44 PM ()
I stayed up working here while listening to the Indians vs. Angels game out in Anaheim. Indians got behind 3-2 but in the last inning got a two-run homer from Travis Hafner. Then they shut down the Angels in the last half inning and won 4-3. I hate west coast games here. They don't start until 10 pm.!

I think you need a caretaker there. Are you totally alone when he is on the road?
comment by jondude on Apr 8, 2008 10:28 PM ()
Oh, Annie, I'm so sorry to hear about your pain! If I were him, I would have said, "Ahh, dearest, I'll be there before you know it. I'll take very good care of you and you'll be out of your pain in no time. I'll even vacuum the floors with the Roomba! That is, after I make the nice warm soup to soothe your soul." Maybe he was thinking that, Annie. Take care. Hope you're better really soon!
comment by sunlight on Apr 8, 2008 10:28 PM ()

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