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Emails Across the Miles

Mr. Troutbend sits in his chair with his laptop, and I sit here on the sofa with mine, and I send him emails to share pictures and news items. By this means I avoid disturbing his train of thought, whatever that might be.

Earlier this summer he went to Las Vegas, and the whole time he was there insisted (via delayed emails) that something was wrong with his internet connection because he was receiving the emails I sent him a day late. Somehow, this absolved him from responding to any of my emails or the various questions I was asking him about house and yard maintenance. It was as if he had determined that a question asked 12 hours earlier had surely resolved itself by the time he saw it.

When he got home, I looked at his computer, and somehow the filter in his email program was clicked so it covered up the emails sent that day, and only showed the ones sent 'yesterday.' Sheesh.

Today is our 34th wedding anniversary. I made a nice steak dinner on the grill and we had peach pie for dessert. I wasn't in the mood to be baking pies, but since this was a deep-dish version, I was willing to try it, and the crust turned out really good, which has increased my self-confidence no end.



He said, 'We can go into town tonight for a nice dinner if you want... maybe McDonalds.' I knew he was half kidding, but I also know he would enjoy dining at McDonalds. He can do that on his own time when he's batching it, doesn't need me along.

At this time next week he will be in Las Vegas and we will truly be emailing across the miles. We don't talk on the phone at all, so it will be our only means of communication for a couple of months. During that time several major projects will get done here, including a new retaining wall and steps, and a new electric line in the yard for the septic lift station and I'll be in charge. He is no doubt glad to get away.

I am wondering if we are going to have another of those situations where he thinks the emails I send him are so stale he doesn't need to respond.

The fox was here yesterday, and has lost most of his winter coat. He doesn't look like the same fox.

posted on Aug 26, 2012 2:43 PM ()

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I miss Quackers.... sob. Guess I'd better get an animal.
comment by drmaus on Aug 31, 2012 12:34 AM ()
You should have seen how we would shake the corn jar, and Quackers would waddle over, hoist himself up a step and bob his head looking for it to be poured out for him. Same with the fresh grass we had to cut from along the river: he'd come over so we could feed it to him a blade at a time. I wasn't going to get a new cat so soon, but decided to go ahead because of the gap when Quackers left, but Quackers was better than a cat in a lot of ways.

I'm so sorry your bird died, and I'll bet you miss him a lot. After you posted about him, I had a dream that the fox lived here in the house with me.
reply by troutbend on Aug 31, 2012 7:36 PM ()
"It was as if he had determined that a question asked 12 hours earlier had surely resolved itself by the time he saw it." --that, dear friend, is in our wiring.
comment by jerms on Aug 30, 2012 7:54 PM ()
Thanks for the good wishes. Our communication has gotten to the point where if we are doing a project together, and he wants me to take something from him, or hold something, he just silently holds it out or wiggles it, and I'm supposed to know what he wants me to do. And I do know, which is the amazing part.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:18 PM ()
Happy Anniversary and many, many returns!
reply by jerms on Aug 30, 2012 7:54 PM ()
Happy anniversary! As for your projects while Mr. T is away, I can say that I,for instance, would never be allowed to oversee the things you describe. Ed thinks I am not competent for guy type stuff. I am happy to let him think so.
comment by tealstar on Aug 27, 2012 7:21 AM ()
I try to have Mr. TBend here for the initial meeting with the service providers so they know there is a guy here somewhere, so don't pull something, thinking women don't know anything.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:22 PM ()
Oh he is SO CUTE!! Love. Have you checked on Quackers? Happy anniversary!
comment by kristilyn3 on Aug 27, 2012 6:47 AM ()
I'm afraid to check on Quackers, but am going to work up to it. He's over near the post office, so it's not out of my way, so no excuse there. You've probably noticed how time flies when you're married.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:16 PM ()
Happy Anniversary!
Have you considered Skype?
He's still beautiful. The fox, although your hubby's kinda cute too.
comment by nittineedles on Aug 26, 2012 9:29 PM ()
Thanks for the good wishes. At least now if it happens again with the email, I'll know to call him and quiz him about what he is seeing on his computer screen. I don't think we'll ever use Skype, just not our thing.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:14 PM ()
By the way, Happy Anniversary!
comment by elderjane on Aug 26, 2012 4:43 PM ()
Thanks.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:11 PM ()
The fox is still handsome but he will need to put on that coat soon!
comment by elderjane on Aug 26, 2012 4:43 PM ()
It's interesting how orange he is underneath, and then his long coat will come in darker.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:10 PM ()
I don't know if I consider it "dining" at Mickey D's. Foxy needs to start growing his new winter coat soon.
comment by boots586 on Aug 26, 2012 4:36 PM ()
We have this dynamic thing going on - he pretends he pines for McDonalds food, and I ignore it, sort of a joke. The fox's tail is starting to bush out, getting ready for winter. A week or so ago it was so straggly.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:10 PM ()
Did you send him an e-mail that dinner was ready????
Happy Anniversary---34 years???? I can't/won't last 34 minutes with anyone!!!

The fox still has his cute face!!!
comment by greatmartin on Aug 26, 2012 4:24 PM ()
We're at a point where I'll think something, and then he'll say out loud what I'm thinking.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:08 PM ()
Happy Anniversary there.A great steak on the grill sounds good and better yet the peach pie looks so yummy.the Fox looks so thin there.Can get over the long tail that they have.
Enjoy your time with hubby on your anniversary day.
comment by fredo on Aug 26, 2012 3:46 PM ()
Thanks, Fredo. It's hard to believe it's the same fox. He was here today, starting at 6 am, clear into the afternoon.
reply by troutbend on Aug 30, 2012 8:07 PM ()

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