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Christmas Letters

Yup. It's kind of fun to wait until the end of February when there's not much doing to open the last of my Christmas cards and read the letters. Some folks complain about this type of letters, but I enjoy the ones I get very much because they are so informative, and they are certainly better than nothing.


This is Ismay Trading Post, owned and operated by my Uncle Robert:

Here's what I found out today:
One of the neighbors fixed my uncle's kitchen drain problem at the trading post. Based upon what I saw when I was there in June, I was sure Robert was on the slippery slope headed toward having no plumbing at all, and doubted his ability to fix it himself as he'd planned. This neighbor is a good friend to my uncle, and it sounds like he's doing all the grocery shopping for him so Robert doesn't have to drive the slow 30 miles to town. When Mr. Troutbend dies, I'm going to move down there and hang out with them.

The "Phil Needs" guy I wrote about back in 2009, who supposedly has some kind of exotic dementia is now doing consulting work reviewing plans for NASA, still working as a guide at the Denver Museum of Science, and grocery shopping. Back then, his wife had set up a website to coordinate volunteers to de-hoard their house and urgently get it ready to sell, as well as taking him shopping for groceries because she doesn't 'do' shopping. It sounds like a trick to get their friends to do all their work for free, and they can well afford to pay for it to be done. And they still live in that same house.

"Digital Media Management" is something a person can get a MS degree in at the University of Texas in Austin. Sounds good to me since computer science as a major has fallen out of favor.

My shirt-tail relations in California have been having a lot of success with their snow cone truck business and it has grown quite a bit. One of their venues last year was the fireworks at the Rose Bowl. It is an elderly mother and her middle-aged son, and I had thought the guy was kind of a slacker, so this is a pleasant surprise. I've never met these people, but correspond regularly with her sister, who is in a nursing home. She's the one who calls me on my birthday every year. We visited her in person a couple of years ago on our way to a cruise departing from San Pedro.

The secretary at one of real estate partnerships I'm in retired a couple of years ago and is loving her new life. She took a Bob Ross type painting lesson, and plans to take another. She's single and I know she feared retirement, but is truly enjoying it. I'd never heard of 'burning the nerves' to try to alleviate chronic back pain, but apparently it didn't help.

I was disappointed that my mother's high school friend didn't write a longer note. I saw her briefly this past summer on my way to someone's house after a funeral - I couldn't remember where they lived. She drew me a map and the verbal description went something like: 'this here is where that old train car was, but it's gone, and here is the MacAllister house but they sold it to some nice people, and you duck down this alley, and there you are.' I was more confused after the directions because I didn't know where the MacAllisters had lived, but I didn't tell her, figuring that was the best she could do. It helped some, because I found out the old train car I'd been looking for wasn't there.

posted on Feb 27, 2012 1:38 PM ()

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I miss the Christmas letter from your industrious cousin who did all the
lambing and the canning. Did you get one?
comment by elderjane on Feb 28, 2012 12:17 PM ()
Yes I did receive one - an email. It was kind of boring, so I didn't post it. Of course, part of the point is that it IS boring because it reminds us that rural life grinds on. This past summer I finally met her after they've been married at least 25 years, reminded me a little bit of Olive Oyl, Popeye's girlfriend without the hand wringing.
reply by kitchentales on Mar 2, 2012 8:35 AM ()
I get a Christmas letter every year from a cousin and her family in the upper midwest. They found Jesus years ago and the usually two-page single-spaced missive is about 80 percent proselytizing. I do read it, though, to search for tidbits about what else is going on in their lives. I did a letter two years and gave it up when on the third year absolutely nothing happened to me.
comment by jondude on Feb 27, 2012 6:27 PM ()
That's why we never did the letters, our life was the same from one year to the next, and then in 2002 everything changed.
reply by troutbend on Feb 28, 2012 10:26 AM ()
I've always liked receiving Christmas letters. I only have one friend who sends one via mail these days, and a few who e-mail nice ones. But I recall many arrived in my childhood in the 50s and 60s. My Dad wrote wonderful ones, not just activity rundowns, but a thoughtful reflection which was included with our family's Christmas card. Many people told me they saved them from year to year.
comment by marta on Feb 27, 2012 4:38 PM ()
I wish I knew someone who was such a clever writer. Years ago, at an estate auction I went to, there were linoleum blocks - the family designed a card and printed them every year, many decades before personal computers changed things.
reply by troutbend on Feb 27, 2012 5:00 PM ()
I wrote a Christmas letter some 10 years ago telling my friends they were lucky I didn't have children and grandchildren to tell them about (how one won the Nobel prize, and another was traveling in Tanzania and converting everyone to Christianity) and instead they could hear about my kitties, a pastime eminently more worthy. I didn't send it to any of my friends who themselves had sent such letters (2 or 3) because I didn't want them to feel I was insulting them, which I was.
comment by tealstar on Feb 27, 2012 3:45 PM ()
2011 was the first time I sent a letter in my cards in 30 years, it saved a lot of time. I was always afraid I'd make fun of someone in it and then send it to them, but this last one was very bland.
reply by troutbend on Feb 27, 2012 4:55 PM ()
I didn't get any of those letters this year. I guess you have to send cards and letters to get them and I quit sending them years ago. The internet takes the place of them now.
I used to give directions telling people to turn where the player piano place used to be. That didn't help them at all.
comment by boots586 on Feb 27, 2012 2:29 PM ()
Directions are a little easier in rural areas now that we had to name all our streets, but the old days had their charm.
reply by troutbend on Feb 27, 2012 4:52 PM ()

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