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Fate

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You’re driving along the freeway, thinking about nothing in particular, when suddenly you see this sign. No longer mindlessly at ease, you are thrown into a distressing, fearful panic. Here I am, you think, only (state your age) years old, and out of nowhere I am approaching my Fate. Properly up-to-date on technological jargon, you exclaim: OMG!

Are you a believer in Free Will? Or are you a determinist? Fatalism and Free Will are contradictory, although many people seem to adhere to both theories, depending upon the circumstances.

Fate is defined as the development of events beyond a person’s control, regarded as determined by some supernatural power. In ancient mythology, there were the Three Fates: Clotho, Lachesis, and Atropos. They were the three goddesses who presided over the birth and life of humans. In Greek mythology there were Moira; in Latin, Parcae. Clotho was the Spinner, who spun the thread of life. Lachesis was the Disposer of Lots, who assigned to each person his or her destiny. Atropos, she who could not be turned, carried the abhorred shears and cut the thread at death.

So there you are, rapidly approaching the turnoff to Fate. Perhaps it is not a bad thing or, at the least, not a FINAL thing. It could be anything, for Fate is what you have in store for you, up to and including… you know.

As for me, I am what you might call an Accidentalist. I believe that events happen by chance, often without deliberate cause, the working of Dame Fortune. And so when I see this sign for the turnoff to Fate, I reach for a tissue and sneeze into it. Fate is certainly not something to sneeze at but, if I cover my mouth, I figure I may not insult the Moira.

posted on Nov 30, 2012 8:40 AM ()

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The people I know who indulge in negative thoughts, stress the futility of doing anything to improve a situation. That is self-destructive. If you are negative, it often leads to a loss of hope and that leads to inaction. It's a lousy way to run a life, to run a world or anything. I am not talking about an enlightened view of the way things if such realism leads to dealing with the problem. But too often negative thinking is an excuse to let others do the hard work, and, worse, to tell the do-ers that their efforts will not change anything. So they don't do anything and they are a burden on those who have hope.
comment by tealstar on Dec 1, 2012 10:17 AM ()
Along with the humor, intriguing post. I suppose I'm with you on this. It's too early in the morning to ponder the subject.
comment by solitaire on Dec 1, 2012 5:31 AM ()
that last sentance ----with you on that
comment by kevinshere on Dec 1, 2012 12:52 AM ()
That's why I always carry a handkerchief in my back pocket.
reply by steve on Dec 1, 2012 7:12 AM ()
All the well-advertised brands are bad -- Savarin belonged in my list. I rarely go to a coffee place and order coffee. Sometimes with my women's lunch group, we'll leave the restaurant and then go to a coffee place. But it isn't an everyday thing. And the last time we were at a Starbucks, this particular franchise was badly managed and the coffee was not good. There's a local restaurant that has a special machine that costs hundreds of dollars and the coffee is made by a special process and it is deliriously good. Ed actually looked into getting the same coffee machine for our house, but backed off when he learned the cost. I'm happy with the coffee I make.
comment by tealstar on Nov 30, 2012 5:00 PM ()
Fatalism is another facet of negativism. I believe we control our own lives, and I believe that being negative is a form of self-destruction.

Eight O'Clock Coffee, Maxwell House, Savarin, etc. -- all are colored water. Starbucks is indeed better, depending on the blend. Brown Gold is good. I buy BJ's proprietary brand -- it is cheap, it is strong. Gevalia is good but expensive; Fairway in Manhattan on 74th and Broadway has good proprietary coffee that they grind for you. Very good. But I don't live there any more. Oh, Upper Broadway, I miss you.
comment by tealstar on Nov 30, 2012 3:28 PM ()
Being negative doesn't necessarily equate with self-destruction. It is being realistic, recognizing that life is absurd and arbitrary and not trying to gloss over it with false hope or contrived optimism. Of course, to do it right one must have a sense of humor... That's why I'm so attracted to H.L. Mencken, I suppose.
reply by steve on Dec 1, 2012 7:17 AM ()
My clerk makes Folgers in the office coffee pot. I tried it once, almost spit it out, and left the rest untouched. But I'd drink water before I'd spend $6 or $7 for a cup of coffee; that's absurd.
reply by steve on Nov 30, 2012 4:37 PM ()
Remember that old superstition about picking up your feet when driving across the railroad tracks? Supposed to bring good luck. I wonder if the town of Fate has railroad tracks, and whether it would matter if they did. Time for some coffee. Did you see on the news that Starbucks has a new premium coffee? $7 a cup for the large size, $6 for the next one down. If all the yuppies had spent their money on paying off their consumer debt instead of spending it at Starbucks, just think of the possibilities.
comment by troutbend on Nov 30, 2012 9:33 AM ()
Yeh, I remember that RR track superstition. Re the coffee: I'll bet if they put those Starbucks big spenders in a blind taste test, they'd have no idea which coffees were cheap and which ones overpriced. Eight O'clock Coffee might win hands down...
reply by steve on Nov 30, 2012 11:59 AM ()
My ex-wife, upon seeing this sign, would have asked me, "Can we make a pee stop here?"
comment by jondude on Nov 30, 2012 9:25 AM ()
Long trips were to be avoided, eh?
reply by steve on Nov 30, 2012 11:56 AM ()

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