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Now the true test will come for me - Do I stand my ground or keep the peace like I normally do? Kassidy's grandmother is pulling in tonight! AHHH I really have to much on my mind to deal with this right now. I walked over to her Uncles house to let him know that his mother was coming tonight and he needed to make room for her. I just don't even want to see her right now. She is so disrespectful and rude that I can't even stand to be in the same room with her. I even called Jim to inform him that he needed to inform his mother NOT to come here. His response was that he could not tell his mother that - so in return I said how would you feel if she made a statement about your son like she did mine- (he has a son from a previous relationship and I have one son from a previous relationship and we have a daughter together) Just to remind everyone she had said that my son would end up a looser on the street and my daughter was smart and he was stupid - this was all done in Florida while on vacation - I was helping my son read a chapter in his book! She was upset because my son's father was in Florida also and was going to bring Dylan to the parks - which he offered to take Kas along too but "she" wouldn't allow it! She has always disliked my son's father because he is the best man that walks the earth- he is smart- kind and successful and her sons are NOT! So he spoils Dylan in her mind and she is jealous that she can't do the same! She always throws it in my face that she doesn't understand why he adopted my son - ect. Long story and alot of emotions to go into it- its been almost 13 years now! I get upset too that he is able to do so many different things with the kids and I am unable too- but I am also proud of him ! He is truly the best and I will always and forever be grateful to have has him in my life!
Off the track of the upcoming disaster! I just want to run and hide! For the whole summer! I can't deal with her anymore, this has been an on going thing for too many years! I am done - I can't do this anymore. If she would stay away I would be fine- but she is always here with her phony smile and silly comments and long lectures that I can't stand anymore. Plain ans simple she doesn't like me and is very rude to me, and I am always the bad guy. It does take two and I have not been perfect in this whole situation - but I also grew up years ago and want to raise my children in a peaceful and calm environment. She in my opinion is not peaceful or kind, she is very dis functional and loves to argue on a daily basis which is very unhealthy for her and my children. She just makes no sense to me and talks like she thinks she know the world - but in fact she doesn't and it makes my stomach turn.
I hope I am able to stand up for myself - which I already no that I can not but I pray that at least I can do it for my children! I dread this weekend already!