Last weekend there was again a lot to do.
Because of my mother in law is very weak my wife already had done several things for a funeral. Its totally unknown when something will happen. It can take a week it can take some months but it will take place within the next four months that's for sure.
So last Friday evening we went to her sister to discuss the things we already did. She had not thought about it at all, so actually it was a big surprise. We already had made a list of addresses to sent mourning letters to (don't know if that word is correct lol), we searched for some poems to be read at the funeral and we already searched for music at the funeral.
At my wife's sister visits are for some reason always a bit weird. We always have a feeling (specially with her husband, lets call him R.) that we are not very much welcome there. All things go by with some tension.
We talked about the music and wanted to let them hear the songs, but that was not necessary. After 2 cups of coffee, with a lot of difficulty they even asked us to drink some. I had the feeling R. preferred we would leave so he could watch TV lol.
Saturday a complete different day. A friend of us was celebrating her 50th birthday. It was a 2 hour drive and the party was great.

Next month we have the wedding of my sister (2nd marriage). We always have good contacts but the new boyfriend is not the one i would have recommend ( and I say it nice now). My sister changed a lot in her behaviour since she met him. They decided that the dress code of the wedding for the guests is: white.
Can you imagine: me totally dressed white? Its bothering me a bit cause I actually don't want to spend money for things I don't like.
For the dress code, my wife planned an afternoon shopping with my son and his girlfriend yesterday. They spent some great time in the city and came home with enough nice clothes. When we will buy mine........