Sunday is a big day for all the Father's to have.
Wishing everyone out there Happy Father's Day.
Just a short note.
I for one never had a good reltionship with mine.
Nor do I have a good one with mine son.
Why is this happening?
I believed that my realtionship with my day,had a lot of this to do with it.
Cannot remember ever onced that he kissed me,hug me etc.
I am not sure what kind that he had with his dad.
Have not seen my son over two years or so.
The last time we had sort of a falling out.
Mostly money problems.
But one thing that stuck to my mind as I told him about what his grandfather was.
As for you,it is up to you and break this cycle.
He did not understand this?
what I am saying is love your childern,do things with them.
Listen what they have to say or offer.
Get involved in their school,sports,music etc.
He did take this advice and was told that he is doing fine with the chidren.
Do I think that the cycle is broken?not sure.
But if he give hugs and kisses then it is.
Which something that I desperated always wanted.
Hug me,let me smell him,squeeze me and tell me that you loved me.That is what I wanted.
But I do not blame him,but do blame his upbringing if any.
I am sure that his family was not full of love.
My uncle or my two uncle were very hard and also unloving.
Why are people so afraid to hug and kiss his son.
Yes,I was not the best of dad or did not how to be one.
Why!not sure.
Was I selfish?maybe so.
Dad did not teach me anyting.
No Birds and Bees stories.
Had to learned everything aoubt this.
Even the big family that we had,no one did not talk about this.
Yes,I was a very late bloomer.
But this is all gone by now.
The message is:no matter what kind of life that you had with dad,loved him,hug him etc.
I do know about the bad dad out there.
First one thing that I got out of this was;the cycle is broken.
Happy Father's Day.
Don't forget to visit or call him.
Enjoy the weekend.