You woke up! Yep, it was early morning. See, the "worry" isn't there in dreams. Sometimes you are "Chased" by a Demon in a dream, sometimes screwing the newest Playmate/Playdude (depends on your gender). When sleeping it all "balances" out... once you "wake up however", things change. Real life is no dream...

So You woke up!!

First thought.... "Oh chit, did I forget to take the garbage out"? (you walk and check). Yes, what a relief, you did take that garbage out. Now you sit down, and have a coffee... doesn't take long before the "worries" kick in.... You are getting awake, and wondering about everything..... YOU START THINKING ALOT!

1) I told my husband last night, he was a "fat lazy asshole". I hope he didn't take it wrong, I just wanted him to do a little more around here. He seemed "upset at me", so I decided to say "NO" to sex when he asked. I hope he isn't really upset...

2) Oh dammit, I did forget to pay the "car payment" this month... what can I do.. think I best call them.. I need a "good lie" tho, I need to think about that first. Damn, I hate things like that..

3) You grab something to eat.. and sit down by the TV to relax. Ironically, the same exact thing your eating... is in a 20/20 report. Now you gotta worry about death by "Peanut Butter" poison...

4) Your a little tense, but decide to get ready for work. You put on a "nice dress", and head out the door....

5) Hubby just woke... He says, "Your looking a little bit Chubby in that dress dear", I hope it's just the dress, and not you!.... You think to yourself... Damn that sucker, "Does he really think I look Fat in this, or did I just piss him off so bad he wanted to be mean"? I need to see a "mirror, then off to work. It's an important day, and I need to be there on time.

6) Fuck you Asshole! I look just fine in this dress!! "If you say so babe" (he says)... (she storms out the door).

7) Rrrrrr, rrrrrrr, rrrrrrrrr, rrrr(poof). Dammit, the car won't start. Do I go ask my "hubby" or walk...

8) Listen Hunny, I do love you, I really do.. I was just a little mad last night.. Calling you an "asshole" was wrong of me. And I am sorry, the main reason we didn't have sex was I was on my period. Can you help me fix my car? "Ok" (he says), but I was very upset dear!

9) Sugar Bunny!? It seems this is beyond our scope. Nothing we can fix ourselves. However, since we been paying the payments on time, we have "warranty", it will cover towing, and a "rental" for you.. let me call them...

10) No dear,,, I'm not feeling good, and don't wanna deal with all that now. Suddenly I need to lay down...

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People WORRY for many reasons. In the above story, the woman was worried about how she "acted" towards her husband. He pretty much did the same to her. This is how relationships work mostly.

In a relationship... if you worry about your mate cheating, you have no trust. Sadly, most don't trust. Get off your ass, and talk logically. Maybe the trust can be built. If not, end the thing.

In life, if you spend all day in worry about "Bill collectors" or whatever, you only hurt yourself. Of course, we must pay and do what we need to survive.. but when we can't, chill out... nobody needs an extra Ulcer. Plus I know from experience, nobody can squeeze blood from a "turnip".

So you are behind on "Child Support" or something. Looks like you are going to jail. Well you tried, but didn't quite make it. What do you do now? Sweat? Cry?, Your going in. Just go I'd say. Why waste your own time in worry? They sure can't take your "Birthday"!

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The "Original" point to this whole blog was, "Worry will kill you more then anything!"

You can wake up, worry if you dressed right, worry if people think your cool, worry about a car wreck.... Your life is not the "problem", the worry is... Most are "captured", because they "Worry" about what may happen, and how they can be.

BE KEWL PEOPLE, but if you feel "right" stand your ground. And don't "Worry too much"! Lots wee can control, lots we can't...

Love, Gary