Why your "Relationship" Sucks?
Sorting this one is like a "No-Brainer".
Your both "Jealous", you both try to control eachother. Your afraid he will cheat, he is afraid you will. So you "fight all the time".
Almost "everyday" people write me. They are like "he said, and did this", "she says HE did this".
Before I go on. I can say "Roxann and I" have a "Great relationship". What makes it "Great" tho? From my "perspective".. neither of us is in eachothers case. I can do pretty much what I want. She can do whatever she wants. She won't be "complaining" over every tiny thing I do. I won't either with her. She knows I am "often gone for a weekend, playing pool in bars". Now sure, now and then she may "bitch" I didn't do something she wanted. I'll do the same at times. I am talking the "overall".
Roxann can go "anywhere" to anyone's place whenever she wants. Do what she wants. Hell, if she's gone I could look at "porn" if I wanted. If I was doing a show, and I wanted to go to a strip bar, wouldn't be a problem. We just don't have that "sense" that we "Worry" about eachother. In the end we "know" who we come home too".
I hear. Like every single day. Both men and women. So freeking afraid of what their spouse will do. It's the "Jelousy" and all that that causes problems. Usually NOT what they are "really" doing. Do you "TRUST" your mate? I trust "Roxann", and she trusts me.
If you have "no trust", it's why your "Relationship" sucks! Pretty much all I can say.
Gary :)