I am so fucking "sick" of hearing all these people.
Ted Bundy was like: "Pornography" made me kill all those women. If it wasn't for porn, they'd all be alive today. Fuck you, you sick Bastard! Lots of people look at it and don't decide to go kill people. Ted is now "dead", but I sure don't buy his excuses.
I look at porn. I'll admit in a second. I like seeing their "heels by their ears". Yep, turns me on quite a bit actually. I don't even consider myself a "porn freak". I look when I want. A now and then thing. I can say, I've never once "looked" at it and had an urge to "kill someone".
People like "Bundy", have a circuit or two mis-directed in their head. They pretty much make "every" excuse they can think of to sound better.
I'll admit, I've had a fantasy (or two) about sex slaves. Yea, sounds "awesome" to have a woman right there to do your bidding. I've even done that "roleplay" thing with many girlfriends I had.
The "difference is", it's not a "game" with someone like "Bundy". People like him (and there are lots like him) just want to use and abuse women. Me, hey I am all for "sexual fun". Dress like a "nurse", I'll be the patient. You be the "mistress", I'll be the slave. I'll be the master, you be the slave. Sex to "ME" should be fun and adventurous. Anything "goes" when both "parties" agree and are just on a different experience.
Many of you "will" disagree with me on the "porn thing". That's ok, I don't tend to listen alot anyway... lol. I just feel "porn" isn't bad if your an adult in a "committed" relationship. The only time I feel "porn" bad, is if one party of a "relationship" is trying to "get out".
I look at porn sometimes "not alot really" Roxann knows this. Sometimes she looks too. We've bought (and watched) porn movies together. We've done the "I tie her up thing", as well as the "she ties me up thing". To me, everything is all cool, as long as both "agree" as a couple.
Bundy had "something" else in his head. Porn didn't do it. I know that. He was a "sick" and "mis-wired" man.
My suggestion to you "couples". Spice up that "relationship"! Think about it, how many times can you do the "missionary" position before both become bored? Try things. Try what "he likes", try what she "likes". Keep it interesting.
Roxi went to bed.. I'm out for now. Gonna check out some porn....
Gary :)