It's 5:45 am. I couldn't sleep. No worries, it's completely in my nature to be this way. I always have been this way, always will be probably. Sometimes I stay up days straight. Sometimes I fall asleep mid day. Sometimes I go to sleep when daylight hits. Sometimes I wake then. But that's not the point of this blog.

I got to thinking about "masturbation".....

I guess to me.. I don't understand what the "deal is". I mean, most all women I ever talked too "admit" they masturbate time to time. They won't say how frequent, certainly won't say what/who they think about. But they will admit they do.

Men.. well ALL men masterbate. If your married and think your man never "masterbates".. Your one stupid naive person.. lol.

This is what I don't understand. Why is the subject so "taboo"? It's completely natural. Nothing in the Bible against it. The only thing Biblical that would be against it, is what you think about when you do. Even that is subject to great speculation.

Personally. I find nothing wrong about it. Nor do I find anything wrong with what you think about. It's Pleasure, it's fantasy. So long as it stays there.. I see no big deal.

What do I think about when I masterbate? Lets just say.. if your a female here,, likely you have been there.. lol. Kidding (kinda).. Sure I see a "Hot" looking babe. May think about her later. May masterbate to her image. Doesn't mean I would "cheat" on Roxann (Actually never would), it just means I am human.

If Roxann chooses to masterbate to "Brad Pitt" (or whoever she likes), I could care less. I'd be an "idiot" to think I looked that good. She'd be an "idiot" if she thinks she looks like "Angelina Jolie".

Here is the point. We are happy together. We stay together. Nothing wrong with a little "fantasy" now and then. Bugs the hell outta me, that people are so "sexually" frustrated in the world.

If you go into a "Biblical" sense.. there can be ALOT wrong with sex. Look at it logical. What doesn't God want? He sure doesn't want "kids born" not growing up with their parents. He doesn't want men seeking prostitutes. He doesn't want women to be used.. or to be "Prostitutes".

Your "sexual nature" however... was "God Given". You like sex because "God put it there". Think about it. Every single one of you reading this, is here because of a sexual encounter between two people (minus the few test tube babies.. lol).

You can be "Black, White, Jew, German, Nigerian, or whatever". You were born with a sexual nature. Do you know, that's the ONLY thing all races, creed's and colors have in common?

To me. Enjoy sex. Enjoy masterbation. Always use logic tho. Don't walk around this world making "un-wanted" kids. Just enjoy what you do, but think about it too.

Gotta go... need to find a pic to wack too..

Gary :)