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The Teeny Bride

After the bad experience at the Mexican restaurant, I went to the car dealership so they could check out a noise under the hood. When I had left the house that morning, there was a loud slapping noise coming from under the hood, behind the dashboard, that sounded like what I thought was a broken belt. It stopped after 7 miles or so; therefore I went about my business. But I noticed the air in the car wasn't getting as cold as it should.

In the waiting room was myself, a guy, and a couple. The male of the couple was a good ole boy WASP kind of guy who's in the National Guard and has been in Iraq. Open, trusting, Christian--he made that clear.
His wife was Fillipino, a teeny woman who wore a size "OO" pair of jeans and high heels. If her husband stretched his arms out, she would fit under his armpit. Long black hair, dark skin and a cute little face, not a day over 20, like the girls you see in massage parlors or on a stripper pole etc.
In the course of conversation, he said he was 37. He looked so much like Mikey, a guy who used to be married to a Fillipino girl I knew. She brought her mother and other family members to the US, they all went to California-=-she was stuck in Mississippi on a farm with Mikey. She left him and he committed suicide.

This is what I've noticed about the Fillipino brides: They aren't interested in farms and country life--borrring. They like lights and cities and cars and jewelry. American men must like their teeniness and supposed subservience--that fades in a hurry. Okay, I'm a pessimist and a cynic, but looking at that besotted man I knew that one day she'll probably leave him and he'll be hurt, hurt to the quick, hurt nearly to death. Maybe not, but I wouldn't bet on it.

susil

posted on July 19, 2010 4:59 PM ()

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Re. your comment about Southern men liking Filipino girls, I think one reason (and the same goes for men who take Japanese wives) is that they are raised to be subservient to men. No-brainer there. Of course, that too is changing and these women are being "Americanized". Some would lament that. I say huzzah.
comment by tealstar on July 21, 2010 9:10 PM ()
Hi teal; I agree with you! And I've been thinking about your earlier comment about Dogpatch. Maybe these southern boys aren't streetwise because some of those chicks marry Dogpatch guys just to get to the US, then they use the marriage to funnel in their parents, brothers and sisters
and everybody else possible from the Phillipines, then dump the guy. It's a common thing.
PS My husband's first wife was Japanese, but she left him. He thought I'd be subservient too, but nooooway jose.
reply by susil on July 23, 2010 12:17 PM ()
why must I ask when we have so many beautiful women in America.
This is for show and they loved the attention that they good.For me no interest at all.
comment by fredo on July 20, 2010 9:52 AM ()
Well, fredo, I agree with you.
Southern men seem particularly attracted to Fillipino women, maybe because they grew up in households with Anglo-Saxon type women who are so different.
reply by susil on July 21, 2010 9:06 AM ()
As a rule, I think marriages with mixed cultures don't work out well.
comment by elderjane on July 20, 2010 6:24 AM ()
Hi jeri; most of the time even with effort on both sides, it's a rocky road.
reply by susil on July 21, 2010 9:07 AM ()
Besotted as in ga ga over his wife, not drunk? You wouldn't have to be Fillipino to want out. Your romantic hero from the war zone loses glamor fast when you learn you will be living in Dogpatch.
comment by tealstar on July 20, 2010 5:36 AM ()
Hi teal; besotted as in ga-ga..You're right about living in Dogpatch, when these girls come to the US expecting a lot more glamor.
reply by susil on July 21, 2010 9:09 AM ()
Interesting...
comment by kristilyn3 on July 19, 2010 6:52 PM ()
Hi kris, tx for reading..
reply by susil on July 21, 2010 9:11 AM ()

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