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Andy

This was a child that I absolutely loved. Yes, teachers do have favorites and mine were always boys. Andy was a troubled child. I didn't know because no one told me when I got him, that he had lost his parents in the first grade. I was teaching third. Later we had Back to School Night (when parents come to listen to your speech about what their kids would learn that year). That was when I met his aunt with whom he was living.

Troubled kids talk out when they should be listening and break all of the rules they can think of. Andy had that record. But in the third grade they often change. Andy did change. He was an adorable kid. The thing that I remembered the best about him was that he just loved stories that I read to them right after lunch - for about 15 minutes at a time. He would be waiting in line before the bell rang, so he could be in his seat and be ready for the story. He sat with his hands folded and he never took his eyes off of me all throughout the story. Many times, I couldn't resist reading a tiny bit more, just for his attention. Once when I was ready to put the book away, he said, "Can we read that part again?" I did.

He was a smart kid and his smartness came out many times not only in his school work, but in little things that he would think up to do. Most of the time they were funny and i resisted my urge to laugh. I would just tell him it was unacceptable and went on with the lessons. Being a smart kid, he didn't persist in his efforts to distract for very long.

I always called kids by their formal name. While they were always Cindy in former grades, in my class they were Cynthia. So Andy was always Andrew. He was still called Andy by other kids, until one day a kid called him Andy, and he said, "My name is Andrew." I loved him more than ever at that moment.

I had him early in my career, so he is in his early twenties now. He was 8 then (third grade). I recently saw him in the post office. He said my name several times, but it was very soft. So when I was leaving the window, he said it louder. I looked at him. He grinned. Of course, I exclaimed, "Andrew!" and gave him the mandatory hug. He turned out to be an even more delightful young man. Of all of the kids I could have met, I was so very glad to see my Andrew... He still has that mischievous gleam in his eye!

Be back when the game is over...



posted on June 15, 2008 6:19 PM ()

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TO EVERYONE: Thanks for being so patient while I was gone. I'll be over to your site soon... as soon as I can!
comment by sunlight on June 29, 2008 11:54 AM ()
comment by teacherwoman on June 26, 2008 3:04 PM ()
Hi Sunlight! I came to visit you. Are you a teacher, too? I am going to visit another teacher right after I'm finished visiting you. It sounds like you like Andrew a lot. It also sounds like you didn't come back right after the game, unless it was a very long game.
from Waterloo
comment by waterloo on June 25, 2008 11:29 AM ()
comment by strider333 on June 22, 2008 9:39 PM ()
What a great blog Glad you were able to touch base with him again...how cool is that.
comment by elfie33 on June 18, 2008 11:18 AM ()
Isn't it funny that little girls are cliqueish and hateful in school? The boys were usually my favorites too. Andrew sounds like a sweetheart.
comment by elderjane on June 17, 2008 7:55 AM ()
OMG I have chicken skin all over my body.. WHAT A MOVING STORY. Mahalo for sharing.
comment by panthurdreams on June 16, 2008 12:06 PM ()
Great story! Thanks for sharing it!
comment by hopefields on June 16, 2008 2:21 AM ()
Great and inspiring teacher story, thank you for sharing.
comment by firststarisee on June 15, 2008 9:19 PM ()
Sounds like he was lucky to have you!
comment by greeneyedgemini on June 15, 2008 8:19 PM ()
I'll bet you were an absolutely incredible teacher! Your love and compassion just shines through these words here! Kids need that. They need to know that somebody cares. They also need to know that there are rules that must be followed if they are going to succeed in the real world.
It's hard to find that fine line - sounds like you did it.
When I was teaching, I loved the kids too, and, like you, I gravitated towards the troubled kids. I would so often champion their causes when other teachers/administrators would come down too hard on them. Maybe I liked them because they presented a challenge to me. Or maybe it was because I had a hard time in grammar and high school too. Or maybe it just because I always like rooting for the underdog.
AND, I know you're going to hate me for saying this, but GO CELTICS!!!!!!!
comment by hayduke on June 15, 2008 6:57 PM ()
I can understand the challenges he faces because I was young when I lost my parents. He is lucky to have a caring teacher like yourself.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on June 15, 2008 6:21 PM ()

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