Cookie and I were supposed to hang out before I headed to CO. However, his roommate and his wife were both occupied and he had to pitch in and babysit. We had hung out every night before I left for CO so I didn't think that would be a big deal. He wanted to come over after and he was about to get into the car and I told him to stay home. It was already 9 and I couldn't stay up late. I told him I would see him when I got back.

Then he had this weekend to himself to work all the bunches that he wanted and hang out and do the things that make him happy. What did he do? He worked I believe. He made a HUGE deal about wanting to see me upon my return. I was kind of mixed about it because I like to be by myself after a trip because I like my space and alone time. I got off the plane and started racing all around to get ready for him to come over. Guess what? Work came up and he had to stay late. He claims to have worked till 4 am.

He called me on Wed to work out the situation, because I did snap at him about it. I had already written him a very nice email apologizing for being snippy. I explained nicely that I did not want to be the mistress to his work or other obligations. I also explained that I did miss him, which is why I reacted the way that I did. I said we're 0 for 2 in making plans this week, and I can't help but be dissapointed. I sent him a text message asking him if he wanted to make plans that he didn't have to cancel. No response until he phones me tonight.

We catch up on our respective days and in conversation he asks me what I am doing tonight. I explain to him that I am going to clean up the place. He asks if he can come see me. I say sure. I start to get excited. I haven't seen him in a long time, and I think great we're going to hang out. Guess what? He texted tonight at 744.

Im not coming over tonight.
I write back K. I am trying not to overreact.

So I wait. I think, he's GOT to be playing a joke on me. Only this is NOT funny. So if he is we'll have to have a chat about what's funny and what's not. So I wait for a half hour. I send him a text that says. I was really hoping you were kidding. What's the deal?

His response:

I will call you tomorrow.

My response:

This is crap. I am having awful thoughts...

His response. Notta.

Basically what we have here people is a situation where a boy is JUST not that into me.

Bummer. It's time to wait ten minutes for that other boy to come along.