Goodness, I have been AWOL for a few months now. So much has been going on I am not sure where to start.

Well for starters I had another daughter in December. Paul and I could not be happier with our new arrival.

Michelle adores her baby sister, and Paul has taken over most of her care minus nursing her. Ha ha that is my job.

Do you remember my friend I was talking about with the two teen boys and the baby girl? OMG her husband dropped a bomb on her (not literally) He for the whole marriage had been having an affair. So, my friend kicked his sorry ass out of her house. She bought a house after her Father passed away, so after her dad died 6 months later her marriage failed.

So she and her boys and her daughter seem to be seriously happy without her husband in their lives. We spend weekends over at their house helping them put in their garden, building a chicken coop. My friend wants to be self sufficient and grow her own food, I think she may be getting a steer and a lamb to slaughter next year.

California is a community property state, so her not so wonderful husband gets to pay her spousal support and a judge gets to decide if she gets more than half of the marital assets..If she gets more than half she will be sitting pretty with a nice chunk of change along with what she has left from her inheritance that she got from her father.

Her husband of course does not see that what he did to her and the children was wrong, I really hate men who stick their heads in the sand and claim denial..Affairs are wrong, cheating is wrong..