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My Head Hurts

At what age does one become able to communicate an ache or pain? Would you feel comfortable in saying that a woman who spoke two languages could adequately report an ailment?

There are two woman who suffered at the hands of the State Hospital that deserve thought. Thought...how useless a word when it can do nothing for them now.

Ms. A, was a petite woman who took pride in her appearance. Her silver hair was perfectly styled....everyday. Every night she polished her shoes a flawless white while watching TV. I never knew why she was there, either she hid her problem well, or I was just oblivious. She spoke two languages, held degrees, and could no doubt impress many with her knowledge base. Why, why, why then would no one take her seriously when she told them she found a lump in her breast! For at least a year she told them she needed a mammogram. For one year her words fell on deaf ears. For one year her lump grew freely.
She lost her breast but it was not enough to save her life.

Can someone help me here? Most people who can communicate, on any level, can tell you when something is physically wrong. So why do doctors think all mentally ill individuals have lost this basic ability?

Ms. B, was a retired nurse. She fell one night in the bathroom. She screamed in agony, calling for help. The lazy bitch staffer made her wait...and wait..and wait for assistance. Ms.B told the staffer she broke her leg, and pleaded for medical help. Bitch staffer one called for bitch staffer two and they both demanded for her to get up and go to bed. Crying that she could not....they pulled her up and roughly "helped" her to bed. All night she lay in that been, crying, asking for the doctor.
The next day she was hospitalized with her leg broken in two places.

I continue my struggle to get decent medical care. When a Dr. reads "psych patient" it's over for me. Whatever I say after that point is not only met with disbelief, but annoyance as well. It does not matter how articulate, well dressed or polite I am.

Thoughts.......to bad they didn't mean more.

posted on Mar 27, 2008 8:09 PM ()

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So sad... you would think these nurses should be held accountable!?
comment by mellowdee on Apr 1, 2008 12:24 PM ()
I can't imagine the struggles you still must face. Things do follow you forever don't they?
comment by frogfenatic on Mar 31, 2008 9:40 PM ()
It's so sad that people can treat their fellow human beings so thoughtlessly. It's hard to conceive... A person would think it would be just the opposite and give special treatment to those in need...
comment by sunlight on Mar 29, 2008 2:45 AM ()
Terrible tales... always when there is misery there are humans ready to exploit it and make the misery worse. I guess this is how Blacks and others not conforming to the white Anglo-Saxon stereotype suffer all the time in banks, offices, shops... treated badly because they are what they are. and of course, transsexuals and people in wheelchairs -- those with physical handicaps -- all are treated as if they are imbeciles. humans are not innately nice. Perhaps that's what's meant by 'original sin'.
comment by clovis on Mar 28, 2008 2:48 AM ()
All three--terribly sad. You are being discriminated against because of your past history.
comment by redimpala on Mar 27, 2008 11:39 PM ()

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