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So Very True
So Very True
READ THIS VERY SLOWLY....IT'S PROFOUND.
Too many people put off something that
brings them joy
just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule,
didn't know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.
I got to thinking one day about all those women on the
Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to
'cut back the calories'.
From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible !!
How many women out there will eat at home because their
husband didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something had been
thawed?
Does the word 'refrigeration' mean nothing to you?
How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in
silence while you watched 'Who wants to be a millionaire' on television?
I cannot count the times I called my sister and said,
'How about going to lunch in a half hour?' She would gas up and stammer, 'I
can't. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known
yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain.' And my personal
favorite: 'It's Monday.'
She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch
together.
Because we cram so much into our lives, we tend to even
schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to
ourselves when all the conditions are perfect!
We'll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet.
We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids
out of college.
Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days
get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer.
One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our
lives is a litany of 'I'm going to,' 'I plan on,' and 'Someday, when things
are settled down a bit.'
When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is
open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new
ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious.
You talk with her for five minutes, and you're ready to
trade your bad feet for a pair of roller blades and skip an elevator for a
bungee cord.
My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love
ice cream. It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach
with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process.
The other day, I stopped the car and bought a
triple-decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have
died happy.
Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT
to......not something on your SHOULD DO list.
If you were going to die soon and had only one phone
call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are
you waiting?
Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand
why I sent this to you
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round
or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butterfly's
erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through
each day on the fly? When you ask 'How are you?' Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the
next hundred chores running through your head? Ever told your child, 'We'll
do it tomorrow.' And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let
a good friendship die? Just call to say 'Hi?
When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an
unopened gift....Thrown away. ... Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear
the music before the song is over.
It's National Friendship Week.
Show your friends how much you care.
Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.
If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a
circle of friends.
To those I have sent this to... I cherish our friendship
and appreciate all you do.
'Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we
are here we might as well dance!'
posted on May 22, 2008 7:21 AM ()
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