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A Sad Note


Well my Thanksgiving dinner is in limbo.
Below is a letter from our dear friend Joyce.
We have been going to her house over the last twenty years.
Always have a great time there and fellowship.
I knew that her parents were having problems .
Many health issues.
She send us a letter stating that it will be cancelled due to this.
So,not sure what Mike and I are doing .
But we will weather this out.
Very sad,going to missed this.
Enclosed is the email that I got from her.
I know many of you going through with some of your elders.
These things happen.
Look like Mike and I will be spending our holiday at the movies.
Unless,somebody will take over the host.
 

I will light a candle for them.
Met them a few times.
Both of them are so wonderful.
But,they are getting along in age.
Going to missed them.
 
 
 
 Dear Friends

 

You may already know that my father's health has taken a turn for the worse and that the doctors at the long term care facility of their retirement community called today and now think that he may not live through this weekend.    As a result, Bob and I are leaving on Wednesday morning (Nov 19) to go down to Baltimore.

 

I cannot be sure how long we will be there, but under the circumstances I think I must cancel Thanksgiving Dinner at my home - even if I am here.  Having Thanksgiving with close close friends is something I truly love and look forward to every year.   I will miss this this year.

 

I hate to change plans at this late date, but wanted to let you know the situation so you can make other plans for Thanksgiving.

 

I will contact you again as soon as I get back and will bring you up to date at that time.

 

Dad is 96 1/2 years old, and would be the first to day that he's had a good life.   I know we all have to go through this with those we love, and then face it ourselves, but it's not easy.    As my mother has been saying  (fairly vehemently) for the last 3-4 years,   "this getting old is for the birds!".

 

Will write again soon,

 

Love,  Joyce


 

posted on Nov 19, 2008 11:42 AM ()

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Sad on Thanksgiving. Maybe you and Mike could invite friends over.
comment by elderjane on Nov 20, 2008 6:07 AM ()
Hugs !!
comment by itsjustme on Nov 20, 2008 4:30 AM ()
Too bad we couldn't find a central spot and meet for a nice buffet for Thanksgiving. Perhaps we should rally Capitol Hill for them to let the regular folk use the chartered planes that the Automaker Robbers have been using (instead of commercial airlines). Just an idea!
comment by busymichmom on Nov 19, 2008 9:15 PM ()
Sorry Fredo that your plans have to change after all these years. I'm glad you and Mike have each other. Some will be alone.
comment by shesaidwhat on Nov 19, 2008 2:05 PM ()
Send Joyce my condolences.
You and Mike can come here and join John and I at The Isle of Capri Thanksgiving Buffet!!!!
comment by greatmartin on Nov 19, 2008 1:42 PM ()


If you were closer you could celebrate Thanksgiving with us!!
comment by greeneyedgemini on Nov 19, 2008 1:25 PM ()
That is sad fredo. It is part of the life cycle, but aging and sick parents are still a heartbreak. I'm sure you and Mike will have a nice Thanksgiving. You will figure something out. Personally, I haven't worked mine out either. JR might not get home so mine is kinda in limbo, too.

Love ya - Annie
comment by anniel on Nov 19, 2008 12:59 PM ()
sorry to hear. We will be spending Thanksgiving with David's boss and her girlfriend. Would love to be in Montana at Grandma Hart's for her Thanksgiving dinner but maybe one of these years
comment by panthurdreams on Nov 19, 2008 12:20 PM ()
How sad indeed...
I am glad you two have each other for Thanksgiving though, and I am sure you will figure out alternate plans!
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 19, 2008 11:57 AM ()
How sad. It is never easy to deal with illness in loved ones, but it is even harder during the holiday season, which highlights the sadness.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on Nov 19, 2008 11:50 AM ()

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