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Life & Events > Ruby (:First Week)disaster.
 

Ruby (:First Week)disaster.

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the first week with Ruby has been tough.
Not with Mike but me.
The first day Mike left her in the kennel.
When I came home and to release her and put the leash on and take her out.
This went along fine and then on the way in open the door and took the leash off and then the trouble began.
She took off and she was very fast as I chased her and then lost her.
At this time I was out of breath shaking about losing her.
I called Mike and to tell him what had happened.
He was doing food shopping and will be on the way.
Again walking around the house looking for her.
Finally found her under the deck in the corner shivering or shaking.
She will not come to me as I waited to see how long this was going to take.
My neighbor Tom came over and Mike must have called him.
Told him he is under the deck and cannot get to her.
So he went under slowing crawling to her and finally got there as she was still shaking and sort of nip at him but this is possible as she was trying to protect herself.
No harm done and ran in the house to open the back door so Tom let her in and thanked him.
I was really pissed about this and when Mike came home and let him have it.
Cannot handle this if I cannot get her to come to me.
This is your dog and take care of it.
Of course with all the yelling was just out of fear as I though that Ruby was lost.
He loves Mike and that is it.
Mike said that it is going to take some time for you.
Was ready to send him back to the kennel.
Okay I will but not taking her out till I feel comfortable in her coming to me.
This was day one.
The rest of the week was sort of like this,still cannot get to me.
The kicker is when she is in bed and comes over to me licking ,let me rub her belly etc.
then saying to myself well maybe we are making progress.Wrong.
When home from the club as I came in she takes off and out of sight.
Not ready yet.
I kneel on the floor,quiet and wait to see if she will come to me.
Not yet.But all last week in bed no problem as she lick,cuddle etc.
But still cannot get her on the leash yet.
I know that Ruby must have been abused at one time.
Guess,will have to see how this week will turned out.
She will be going to the vet for her check up and this will give me a chance to speak with her.
Wish me luck.More stories later.

posted on Feb 4, 2013 10:39 AM ()

Comments:

I agree with the treat comment. Give her treats just for looking at you and then watch as it progresses. Although I hope things are better by now.
comment by kristilyn3 on Feb 10, 2013 12:40 PM ()
she is slowing coming around.But will take time.First thing first.This week she will get bathe trim the nails,brushing her teeth etc.A good bath and she has dry skin right now and we have to get her on schedule for some nice oatmeal bath to help her.I am not worrying to much about wether she will warm up to me and time will tell.How are you doing there?
reply by fredo on Feb 10, 2013 1:03 PM ()
Took two years for Max to let Ed pet her. Ruby will come around and it is frustrating to not be accepted at first, but it will happen.
comment by tealstar on Feb 10, 2013 6:35 AM ()
While in bed I can pet her and rub her belly.This is sort of weird.Trying to figure out the behavior there.She will come around soon I hope will see.Ten years I will be gone.
reply by fredo on Feb 10, 2013 1:05 PM ()
Give her one of your old used sweaters or shirts to sleep with - she'll get used to your scent, and not associate you with anything negative. It works for us. Oh and do what the others have suggested: calm voice (I know, not always easy), positive reinforcement (treats, praise), and try not to be "over" her too much. Dogs that have been abused deal a lot better if you get eye level with them to put collar or leash on them. Good luck and don't give up on her!!
comment by jaydensblog on Feb 8, 2013 5:20 PM ()
She stay with us in bed and let me pet her and rub the belly.
I do not yell or say anything.I know that this makes it worse.
Calm and just will have to wait when she is ready and not pushing her.
Have not got to the point on putting a leash on her.So not rushing will see in the near future.
Mike is happy and this is his dog as he knows it.As for me time will tell.
reply by fredo on Feb 9, 2013 5:09 AM ()
You're doing better with her than I did with Cassie at first. I'd say she likes you if she's coming to you in bed. Something about other parts of the house or you being upright is bothering her - she's not afraid of you. Don't give up, just be patient. It took Cassie a couple of years to come to me and even now, after 8+ years, she still doesn't always come when I call. Just give her as much attention as she will accept, when she will accept it.
comment by catdancer on Feb 7, 2013 2:39 PM ()
She is slowing coming around ,but not able to get the leash on for a walk.
Mike and I go out together and she is not too happy about this.
reply by fredo on Feb 7, 2013 3:41 PM ()
It's never too late for "puppy school". It's really about training the humans, of course, but it's good for the pup too. Train well and the rest will follow. Eight-week sessions are offered around here several times a year. Ask the vet if you can't find a class. Good luck!
comment by jjoohhnn on Feb 5, 2013 8:31 AM ()
yes,we are planning on this soon.That she needs a lot of .
reply by fredo on Feb 5, 2013 12:53 PM ()
Cute dog. Cuteness only goes so far, right Fredo?
comment by steve on Feb 5, 2013 8:03 AM ()
yes,cuteness goes a long way.
reply by fredo on Feb 5, 2013 12:53 PM ()
Keep lots of treats in your pocket and reward every positive sign. Don't despair. Try not to lose your temper. Use a kind soft voice. Just keep at it, dear Fredo, one tiny step at a time. Not to worry. It may take some weeks. Love always wins in the end.
comment by marta on Feb 4, 2013 6:04 PM ()
You poor guys. Sometimes it takes a while for a pup to settle in. You might have something in common, appearance/smell-wise with ther person who had been her abuser. She will get to know the cute, lovable you soon, thoug, and i bet you will be the best of buddies.
comment by trekbrarian on Feb 4, 2013 12:18 PM ()
Mike does well with her.Oh!some day we will get this settled.I am not worry about it.
All I need is love.
reply by fredo on Feb 4, 2013 1:24 PM ()
You know better--have treats in your pocket--use them--you have to train a dog--just like in the old days you trained Buffy--give Ruby a chance and don't be such a grumpy old man!!!
comment by greatmartin on Feb 4, 2013 11:59 AM ()
The dog is train and for me being grumpy are you serious.Do I look like a dwarf
reply by fredo on Feb 4, 2013 1:23 PM ()
Good luck with the bonding, Fredo. It took awhile for our new cat to take to Mr. Traveltales, and she still won't let him catch her if she's not in the mood. She's a cutie, but looks like she can really run.
comment by traveltales on Feb 4, 2013 11:52 AM ()
I hear this from a lot of sorts out there.It will take time.
reply by fredo on Feb 4, 2013 1:25 PM ()
The course of true love never runs smoothly. Cheer up, just give her a lot
of treats. Cats and dogs have cupboard love for awhile. It is very
positive that she cuddles you in bed. We love hearing about her.
comment by elderjane on Feb 4, 2013 11:13 AM ()
I am fine and yes she gets a lot of treats.That she gets.
reply by fredo on Feb 4, 2013 1:25 PM ()

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