Boy ranting and raving,over serious issues.I do worry about my too polite son//Well I am much wiser.oh the stuff i gave her the reason i didn't see her for a month is she had a yard sale,with all my stuff didn't keep anything except rolltop desk,cast iron skillets,apparently made a little bit of money off of it .I found out she goes every morning before son to school or after to the salvation army drop offs around town and gets the nice things people have left for the salvation army TO SELL!!!THen takes it and has yard sales..She gave me some nice things cause I was such a good friend to her.I didn't want to accept for I thought oh gosh keep take back too expensive.I have good taste.Hell she had found in dumpsters,and salvation armys...She didn't take time or money of hers to actually buy me anything.I felt like a complete dweeb..Well like i said lessons learned.....Sweet smiles,don't produce sencere people...