I finally got through to someone that our friendship has evolved into something that to me is menial (I realize that sounds harsh, but it's the truth for me and sometimes you need to be harsh to get the point across to someone who is positive they "know" more than you do). Our lives (mostly mine) have changed and also, maybe I'm more sensitive or cynical/critical.
I feel no love lost from ending things. I have no emptiness. =)
I just hope I won't have to put my foot down harder and say something like, "Buzz off!" because it seems that this person believes I'll "be back". I'm positive I won't be.
Not wanting to be in relationships with or around people that I feel aren't worthy of my energy, has been hard for me to cope with because I've been told I'm being judgmental. I'm not trying to judge, I just know that I know certain personalities turn me off and seem like time-wasters and are stressful to me. So I explain that and am told that I am a loner and that I shouldn't complain when no one is around to be there for me.
Sigh. Can't win for losing with some people! (lol)
Why does it seem like there's always someone who judges you who says you judge others and there's always someone who wants to control you but says you want to control others?
Kind of funny how that works....