I'm still very upset at the ex for not telling me he is getting married. Not sure that people understand the main reason for the anger, I shall explain briefly then onto some fantastic news!!

Just last month I asked him for 50.00 extra child support. He said he would but can't afford to so we have to stick with the 200.00 Fine and well until a few days ago when I find out he is getting married in January, paying for the flight from BC Canada to Mexico for both him and his lady and in addition; can afford the wedding and rings but not an extra 50 a month for his own son? Grrrnesss.....it does make me mad. The shock of it hit me like a rock but I'm really unhappy about his unwilling to provide a little extra for his boy so that he can go drink margararetas in Mexico.

Okay...now the good news!! After almost three years at the same job, I will be giving my notice on Tuesday that I will be leaving them effective December 1st. The new job offers much more pay, 80% medical, dental and optometry. I'm relieved and happy and NOT looking forward to telling the owner. He found out I was looking elsewhere and offered me a raise. Though even his raise does still not touch what my new wage will be....

:-)