I have a question and I would like the reader's opinion.

Would you be miffed (or more) if your ex wrote in a private email specifics of where you live, landmarks, etc., AND even had the gall to mention that he "wanted to stop..."? This was stated after writing "I don't check up on you." That last part I could care less about, except that it makes him such a liar.

Yes, I do live in "Mt. Morris" in ___ ____________________ across from "__________________" or something. So this ex was in my area not long ago, according to his email. NO, he is not welcome to stop by.

I thought that this exes email was more about divorce, even though he mentioned something about filing taxes. Apparently in his mind filing together will be, in his words, "...hoping we can work this together", after including in the last email "I just want to know how you are "filling" (IRS) to be good to both." and "To me, seems obvious we should work together in some way."


My response to this, of course, is for him to consult his tax preparer. It is none of his business how I conduct my personal business. And I would never consider filing as married because there is no way in hell that my ex (not yet technically) is entitled to tax credits for my children and applicable refunds.

Am I wrong by simply wanting to yell MYOB? I appreciate your comments and replies as this situation has been rolling around in my head for a couple days since the emails and just smacks of bad taste.