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Education > Life Lesson #6
 

Life Lesson #6

or, Remind Yourself that when you die, your "In Basket" won't be Empty . . .

Many of us live our lives as if the secret purpose is to somehow – GET EVERYTHING DONE!
Staying up late, getting up early and avoiding having any fun and keeping those we love waiting . . . until sometimes they lose interest.
I’ve done this myself.
I’ve tried to convince myself that my obsession with my “to do” list is only temporary – that once I get through the list, I’ll be calm, relaxed and happy.
This rarely happens because once items are checked off the list, new ones simply replace them.
There will always be phone calls that need answering, projects to complete and work to be done.
Regardless of whom we are or what we do, however, we should remember that nothing is more important than our own sense of happiness and inner peace.
If we’re obsessed with getting everything done, we’ll never have a sense of well-being!
Realistically, almost everything can wait.
It will all get done in due time.
We should remind ourselves frequently that the purpose of life isn’t to get it all done but to enjoy each step along the way.
Remember when we’re gone, there will STILL be unfinished business to take care of.
And you know what?
Someone else will do it for you . . . . . .

Inspired by: “ Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff and it’s all small stuff”
~ Richard Carlson Ph.D.~



posted on June 7, 2012 9:19 AM ()

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I try to do this.
comment by elderjane on June 11, 2012 12:49 PM ()
It takes practice but is absolutely "do-able" xxx
reply by blogsterella on June 11, 2012 1:31 PM ()
I could write a blog about "lists".....sometime I might just do that. Guess I'll put it on my To-Do list......HA HA HA! Great post!
comment by dakmom on June 9, 2012 6:33 AM ()
and I'd read your blog
reply by blogsterella on June 11, 2012 1:33 PM ()
I envy you for your energy and drive. I have lists, but more to keep those tasks in the back of my mind until I feel like doing them. Eventually they get done, but I'd get a lot more accomplished if I pushed myself to go at it.
comment by troutbend on June 8, 2012 6:37 AM ()
We all have "stuff" that needs doing. The point here is, ok, we all know what we have to do - just not all in one day!! I'm learning this only now. We have to have fun & enjoy our time too!
reply by blogsterella on June 11, 2012 1:30 PM ()
Thanks--I needed that.
comment by solitaire on June 8, 2012 4:49 AM ()
Since I retired (from babysitting grandkids) I spend most of my time doing what I enjoy, what makes ME happy. I still go on the dreaded vacations with DH but that makes him happy and it makes me happy to make him happy.
comment by nittineedles on June 7, 2012 12:38 PM ()
Ok, so what are YOU doing to make YOU happy? Anything you can disclose in mixed company? xxx
reply by blogsterella on June 11, 2012 1:32 PM ()
My daDDy he started his 'break' back around 2003 and ain't stopped yet. MOL
comment by hobbie on June 7, 2012 10:14 AM ()

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