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Weighing In

I’ve intentionally avoided the topics of politics, religion and abortion (a combination of religion and politics) in my blog. I’ve seen too many people become emotionally charged in the blogosphere where these two areas are concerned, and to create such an atmosphere on my blog would not serve my goal for blogging. This morning’s post may be the exception.

This morning on CNN.com, the Quick Vote question is: What do you think Alaskan Governor Sarah Palin should do with her future? The options are: Run for president; Stick to Alaska; Write a book; Host a TV show. Those were the only options available for her.

I have a fifth option. I think Governor Palin should take care of the situation within her own home. She has a teenage daughter who’s expecting a child, and a young son with Down ’s syndrome. I would think that her plate would be full, as it is. There are times when parents must put their children first, and either of those situations would call for more involved parenting—not the hiring of more help.

Yes, she has a husband who can tend to those issues while she’s busy with her career, but at the same time, both of those issues require a united front approach. Not that Govenor Palin and her husband should hover over these children night and day, but career endeavors that require less of their time might be more beneficial to their family.

Since I’ve already opened a can of worms, I’ll go ahead and empty that can. Research indicates that the first few years of life are critical for the development of any child, especially one that has Down’s syndrome, since that child is more likely to be developmentally delayed in all areas. I question how Gov. Palin’s attention can be effectively split between a high-powered political office and this child.

I further question her judgment in the area of her daughter. She appeared to be supporting the idea of her teenage daughter marrying the father of her unborn child. This whole scenario seemed to me to be nothing more than PR for the benefit of the conservative crowd at the expense of her daughter and her baby. Most seventeen year old girls can’t decide upon a prom date, much less make decent decision regarding lifetime commitments.

The days of Women’s Lib and ERA have given us options—options that I’m glad that we all have. Because we have those options, doesn’t mean that we should always put our children on the back burner in order to further our careers. There are times when the job of Mother needs to take precedence. My thoughts on the job of Father are just as strong.

I’ve weighed in. I’ve said it, and I own it.

Have a lovely day!








posted on Nov 23, 2008 6:59 AM ()

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Children are a blessing, a burden, a responsibility, a lifelong commitment, a joy. Too bad she is missing out on so many things by putting her career first. One day she may look back with regregs.
comment by mzscarlett on Dec 20, 2008 5:57 AM ()
I question her judgement in all areas.
comment by elderjane on Dec 9, 2008 7:27 AM ()
Very well said, I wish she would just go away and raise her family..
comment by strider333 on Nov 30, 2008 12:15 AM ()
I have always thought her daughter's marriage was more of a shotgun thing than a carrot tossed out to the conservatives. In my mind, she makes those conservatives look like a frat party. I agree that those children need a lot from their parents right now and her acceptance of the veep spot on the ticket was inappropriate at best.
comment by catdancer on Nov 26, 2008 5:01 AM ()
I'm on the fence with this one. It's hard for me to judge what kind of parents the Palins are--I'm not there. My 4 kids turned out pretty successful being raised by a single parent (me) while teaching full time. It can be done.
comment by solitaire on Nov 25, 2008 6:45 AM ()
Interesting post indeed!
I can't imagine the responsibilities of parenthood... but man, I also can't imagine trying to be VP and having all those family issues going on around me!
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 24, 2008 12:19 PM ()
To answer one of your questions, apart from the misconception that Hillary supporters would blindly support such a do-do, she is practically a poster girl for the Religious Right which has such a strangle hold on the Republican Party. This faction was not at all happy with McCain. He copped out to them by choosing her. Also he wanted the presidency so much, he allowed campaign rhetoric that was underhanded and bigoted. Ed says he couldn't recognize the McCain he once liked in this guy. He seems to be back as himself again now that it's over. Maybe Obama can get some good out of him.
comment by tealstar on Nov 23, 2008 7:01 PM ()
Wow! When I raised these questions 6 weeks before the election I was called a sexist and a few other names. I also questioned the judgment of a person who conducted her personal life in the way Palin does. For example, why a fifth child with the same partner, when she knew or should have known that pregnancy after age 40 carries increased risk? Would she gamble like that when dealing with foreign policy issues? I hope she stays in Alaska and is long forgotten by '12.
comment by jjoohhnn on Nov 23, 2008 5:19 PM ()
I have said all of these things as well over the past months. My blogs on Sarah don't exactly foam at the mouth, but they are not gentle,wee things. What I found unconscionable is how she paraded the infant on camera at almost every appearance, like a TV prop. The boy, father of the grandkid to be, said on his My Space page before he was nailed, that he never, ever wanted kids. (Just teen-aged bravado, not true, said his defenders.) I have read nothing about a marriage having taken place. If this is to be, why isn't it done? I also wondered if, after the election of, perhaps, the Democrats (oh, hoorah) whether the boy would still be obligated to go through with it, now that his in laws were not in the White House. If they do marry, bet on a quiet divorce. Can you imagine the uproar if Chelsea Clinton had gotten pregnant out of wedlock, or a somewhat older Obama daughter? I am so very grateful, also, that the Alaskan senator Stevens, was not re-elected as there was a risk he would be kicked out and then Palin would have instant access to his seat that she would proceed to coerce (she has used pressure tactics in her campaigns) out of the Alaskan electorate. Do not pass go, go directly to Nazi Germany.
comment by tealstar on Nov 23, 2008 1:53 PM ()
I agree also. Her children should come first, especially under the circumstances.
comment by busymichmom on Nov 23, 2008 10:29 AM ()
Well said!
comment by dragonflyby on Nov 23, 2008 7:47 AM ()
I agree. Completely! I can find no fault in your post and I've wondered the same thing about her children.
comment by jwrone on Nov 23, 2008 7:10 AM ()

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