One thing I hate the most is deception. I've always told people that I am a little to blonde to figure things out earlier and a little to trusting to know better sometimes. Well it's happened again but thankfully not at a huge scale.

As some of you may know David & I have been having roommates for about a year and have been having issues for the last 6 months. We lost our friendship with our 2nd roommate. Our 3rd roommate we offered to let him live with us for 2 months (Nov & Dec) at only $250 per month but as of January he would have to pay $525 + 1/3 electric & 1/3 food costs. Well during those two months he wouldn't accept job opportunities because they were not exactly what he wanted...which normally is fine but hey we are paying your way...get a job!! He accused us of not be flexible and not trusting the universe that all would work out. We explained to him that we were footing the bill and therefore needed him to take care of us portion as of January and then when January came around he felt he needed more time and that his unemployment should be enough to pay the bills (which it wasn't...he was about $300 short a month if we would have continued with him).

Well he moved out on the 12th to great relief for David and I. But now I found out through a friend that he is spreading lies about us and telling people we are dangerous and using meth/ice! Now I have no problems telling people that in our past we did ice and we were addicted HOWEVER we both made a commitment to each other and ourselves that if our relationship and lives together was worth saving that we had to quit & so 3 1/2 years ago we quit together and have never gone back despite fights, cravings or any other reason we could come up with. But that is just it...it is my past. And to have some spreading lies like that....and worse yet...to people I work with...it's just sick and wrong. I just don't understand how people can be so self-diluted that he needs to tear us down to make himself look good. We gave him every opportunity and he threw it out the window and now he talks bad about us??? I refuse to stoop to his level and refuse to play his game.

Thankfully the people he has been talking too...work & personal....love & know both of us and know the truth and know that what he says is a complete lie. But it still doesn't help the fact that both of us feel snowed over and taken advantage of. I do know he cannot keep lying forever and that his actions & words aren't lining up right & others will see that and the truth will come out.

HUGS and aloha to you all!!