I am aware that parents R always saying' THERE' child is doing much better at all things,over other kids.anyway chandler is 7(sept) when he was born I found it odd that he didn't cry.I have a pic of him he is smiling and full head of hair.The nurses called him Elvis.The very front of his hair was as golden blonde,and looked spiked on that side(cow lick.I have only been around maybe 2 friends who had children.I never planned to have children.So-friends,relatives all said he is perfect.Never had a problems.he was happy,he just never cried(except when sick 2 this day/gets hurt,maybe a tear if it is life threatning.
So honestly if we ever have another baby I know in my heart it will be a girl,and cry constantly!!!We really got off easy chandler made it look so easy to have a child.To couples,then they would come back to us and say what did you all do??Ours scream,won't go to bed,whine.I as welll as his father can't handle a whine, a whimper/(military)We told them stick to a schedule,schedule!!!It works.It is now 15 til 8pm he was ready for bed at around 10 after 8.It truly amazes people.He is Great....I thank God every morning for him,and to bless him and his day fruitful,and most of all FUN!Sorry. anyway oh he at one point had a friend that would puff up and pout ,stomp, whine(i thought i would send his butt to time_out//chandler tried it whoa.His father has only said 2 phrases to him."Cease and desist" and when a whine even seemed on his lips(alan or I)will say."This is not up for debate son" thats it...
I worry because he is too nice.We have taught him well,its hard to find.The only kids in our block are 10,12 to 5,6.Of course he wants to play with the one 10yr old he lives 2 houses,and a corner from us.He used to be nice,but when alan left for Iraq this boy that i have trusted is worrible.That mouth.oh no U will not come in my sons room and take over chans games,dvds, whatever chandler wanted to (Share)with him.I felt bad for chan cause dad is gone,so when he said once a month can I please mom I swear if he is mean I'll come home,or ask him to leave!What can You do.?Chandler is needing a GOOD friend...I'm not saying not to be mean,on the contrary.I told chandler there is a difference between Mean and Rude..I said constantly maintain manners(therefore Rudeness is out the window not tolerated!I told him of course he is going to be mean once and awhile.Your a BOY son.Boys are mischievous. Oh darn it,I have been torn on this -kinda when my gut is screaming no,no to the boy(michael)oohh!!