Chelsea come over this morning for the day dad working.She is so small for her age.This morning she looked so tiny.I put her in the baby room.I thought i would grab 30-45 more mins of sleep.It was 6:30.Nope couldn't sleep.Chan gets up and bless both there hearts.Wow she sounds like a little mother.You should see her right behind chandler saying now you know you can't play til you eat your breakfast chandler its what gives you energy.I just about rolled in the floor.She is constantly telling him what he "Has" to do.She is right most of the time but she needs to play and not mother.Oh there she went Now chandler you can't go out that door without a jacket you'll get sick!Chan says oh you sound like my mother for petesake let me wake up Chelsea.Heheheh!!
I do wish she would let up on the bossing him.He is just getting flushed.I told him just don't answer to everything just shake your head.But he is like me and he will die before he can't have the last word.Oh goodness.I told her yesterday be easy on Chan OK Chelsea.He isn't used to a child telling him what to do.OK I know in her way she is helping but i have the feeling this child has had to grow up like Chan did when the dads went to Iraq.The Sgt went with Alan so they were gone the same amt of time.Chelsea is just 6.So she turned into a little"mother".I can tell she misses her mother.I feel for her.He (her dad) is doing the best he can.At least he wanted what was best for her.From what i understand the only time she spent with mom was going to school of a morning.To me that is not time well spent with a 6 yr old that has had her dad gone for 18 mths and in a different state,then a divorce.
They were playing the other day and chandler ran in and said Chelsea divorced him.I felt so bad for her obviously its on her mind huh???I hope i help a little.I mother everyone old and young..That is just me...