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Life & Events > Just Because . . .
 

Just Because . . .

On a beautiful spring day, I took my lunch break outside on a bench under a huge, shady tree. I was alone but it was nice to leave my workplace and spend some time outside.
Lately, I’d been reflecting on the loneliness in my life, several years after a divorce and a major move. I’d finished raising my family alone and was occupied with surviving in the 90’s working world. Perhaps that was why I had not met a new mate, someone with whom I could share my life and love. I’d not really ever entered the arena of singles, which was always dominated by a greater number of women (and young women, at that) than men. I kept busy with my teenage daughter’s activities, visits from my grown son as well as being involved in volunteer work.
At the office there were quite a few married women, who sometimes received flowers at work from their husbands. The arrangements often had notes attached, telling them the flowers were sent “just because.” I admired the flowers, but, even more, the sentiments behind them.
Unhappily married for many years, I had never become accustomed to receiving anything – just because. I longed for flowers like those and envied those loved women.
At the picnic table, as I started my lunch, I felt something fall on my head. It was a blossom on its way down to the grass. I looked up and saw that the huge tree I was sitting under was full of graceful flowers, which hung within fairly easy reach. I hadn’t even noticed them, because I hadn’t looked up.
I immediately saw that I was being gifted by flowers, beautiful flowers from Someone who loved me. He wasn’t going to leave me without my own token of love. I stood on a brick ledge and gathered a few low-hanging blossoms. I took them back to my desk, and placed them in a glass jar. It was wonderful to see them as I worked, and to be reminded during the day that Someone wanted me to have flowers, just because . . . . .

Inspired by Suzanne F. Diaz


posted on Jan 18, 2012 5:34 AM ()

Comments:

I can relate.
comment by redimpala on Jan 18, 2012 12:01 PM ()
This is our state flower.Did you steal it from us
comment by fredo on Jan 18, 2012 9:18 AM ()
Love blooms.
comment by marta on Jan 18, 2012 8:27 AM ()
Beautiful. Just beautiful.
comment by jondude on Jan 18, 2012 7:21 AM ()
I will send you flowers in boquets wrapped in friendship. We all deserve flowers everyday.
comment by hoperises on Jan 18, 2012 6:12 AM ()
Thank you so much!
reply by blogsterella on Jan 18, 2012 8:47 AM ()

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