Haven't been on recently- due to being depressed about current situation. I have some advice for those of you who are thinking about tying the knot- DON'T!

I've learned that most women, and especially those from Asian Countries, only view Americans as being a "Money Tree"- when times are great, and money is flowing, so to speak, they are there by your side. However, God forbid you ever get into a situation where you suffer from medical illness, and wind up losing all of your retirement, savings, house, etc., and need to start over- watch out! Now you will be blamed for everything- and accused of being nothing more than a piece of shit!!

In looking back, If I had to do it all over again, i.e. getting married- I wouldn't.

It would have been better to die being single, and at least still have my retirement and life, than to go through a living hell with an unappreciative wife.
Once I can get on my feet, I will seek to end this charade and file for divorce. I don't want to do it now, as I don't have any money to give her at the moment. I am not one to throw someone out in the cold.