I am in a quandary about what to do in this situation.
Due to bad advice from attorneys, We lost everything we had. All of our savings, home- gone. Now, I have nothing (except my health- which I almost lost). It seems that my wife who I love dearly is having a hard time letting go of the past and in forgiving me for what happened. She blames everything on me, as well as her varicose vein conditions in her legs. Everything is my fault- and that's all I constantly hear- 24/7- day in and day out.

What should I do? I'm at my wits end.

I don't want to divorce her- yet, I am not happy to constantly be belittled and put down. I have told her about how I feel, yet she ignores it. She stops for a while- then, when she is feeling sick or down- throws all of this stuff back in my face.