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This is true of most people..."Many teens "find oral sex is less intimate than kissing" and it is, which is why prostitutes and rent boys don't kiss. Perhaps all that cum swallowing is one reason for the obesity problem... it is chock full of nutrients...

According to this, all the preceding shows were robotic! You've been had, Martin.

You make the whole episode seem a trifle boring... ho hum!

It is probably why you are fit now. The body learns things early and keeps the lesson.

In a way it's amusing. Our government [australia] considers my partner and I to be strangers -- although we've been together for 42 years and every thing we own is in common. Legally I have not the right to make any decisions for him should he become ill, to visit in hospital, to inherit, ... there is a good side, age pensions are larger because we are treated as singles

I meant to add that your English is excellent! better than most native English speaker/writers! congratulations.

A fine list. Atlas Srugged, by Ayn Rand is the book that reignited the world's love affair with laissez faire capitalism, and inspired Reagan and Thatcher to their excesses. It is so sad that Rand's excellent ideas should have been so perverted over the last couple of decades

Hi,
Your lover is behaving normally, like any healthy young man. It is unrealistic to expect young people to commit to a relationship before they have experienced several other people. That’s why around 24 is the usual age for people to start seeking a steady relationship. My partner and I were that age, 42 years ago and it was because we knew what was on offer, that we also knew when we had found the right person. had I remained with the first man who fancied me, an older theatrical director, I know I would always have wondered what I was missing and left him eventually.
Do you want an unwilling partner to share your life? or do you want someone who wants to be with you? We can’t hasten maturity, it has to take its time. A month without contact seems a good idea, because, no matter how hard you try to be easy, you will not be able to keep a look of pleading from your face, a note of hope in your voice etc... making him feel a little guilty.
You must let him see that you can live without him and when he sees you are not dependent on him, he will then see the relationship as one between equals. If he feels he has to be there or you will crack up, then that is too much pressure and he will begin to hate you.
You have to be the person he met on the first date – independent and self possessed... that’s what attracted him to you. He wasn’t attracted because you ‘needed’ him. There is nothing more pathetic than a ‘needy’ person. there’s a short English poem that says it all:
Why so pale and wan, lover
Why so wan and pale?
Why if looking well won't win him
Should looking ill prevail?
Hang in there and pay him the compliment of allowing him to decide for himself. then if he returns, you know it is for real. If he doesn’t then you have good memories and know you have avoided a future of mental pain.
Best wishes,
Clovis

Martin is right... it is alarming how things that used to take a few minutes now take ages... i dont know why it is, there is simply no time left to do anything, so we dont do anyhting...Mind you, breakfast can take two hours, and then there's last night's movie we recorded, and then it's nice to sit in the sun and...

That's one of the bemefits of having a population approaching 400 million, it means there are a lot of gays. here, with a population only one fifth the size... there are seldom enough gays to organise anything. Sounds like fun.

Things are hotting up! Are you going to give campaign speeches? Make sure you check the spelling and grammar on any fliers -- it is a school committee you're trying for after allJust be yourself and you're sure to be elected -- I'd vote for you. When are the elections?

What a brilliant review!!! you do her justice. Those two 'poems'... tears of amusement are running down the side of my nose... brilliant. Thanks,,, I'll get that book. Wit is just about the only thing that makes me laugh, and the more mordant the better.

what a youthful voice... he speaks very slowly, but well. I was intrigued to hear him talk about the Nazification of the USA. I've been reading about Republican ideals and couldn't help thinking there's a lot of closet fascism in there.

Goodness, that ad gives new meaning to having a 'woody'... they weren't really so lacking in guile, they simply knew the wowsers would refuse to think about it.
I rhink it is important that the sexual lives of those who want to regulate the sexual lives of their constituents should be laid bare. Why should a man who decries gays be allowed to get his male subordinates to perform fellatio? Once sexual equality is granted legally to everyone, and i mean everyone, then they should be left in peace. Meanwhile I hope the media keep on digging the dirt!

yes..... AJ and James are both right. We each have to work out our own salvation. My guess is M is quite a bit younger than D and that is probably causing complications too. M probably enjoyed a few adventures with young guys in Italy and now needs to think carefully. And going into the army is realy traumatic for a gay! He'll be petrified that D will somehow blow his cover while he's in there. BTW your english is bloody good!