Make the most of your family gathering this Holiday. Might want to do some Oral History gathering.
My family passed long ago, wish I had their stories recorded. I was
starting to tape record a neighbor's stories, I'd help her around the
house and she'd slip into interesting stories from her life. I
suggested we do a 'Soup and Story Log'. I'd help make her soup recipes
and she'd share some story that came to mind. Unfortunately before we
got into this project she had some major health issues and she passed
in March. So before it's too late, take some time over the Season of
family connections and record their stories. I'm sure it'll be long
treasured.
I have cassettes from my son's very early years, and they are wonderful to listen to his "baby" voice and views about things.
Here are some tips:
Sit down with relatives and listen to their stories.
Some things to consider before you get started:
Less is more. Try not to treat this as a major
undertaking, or you may never get started at all. Remember that you’re
creating a personal history, not writing a definitive biography — or a
bestseller. Just bring along a decent tape recorder, make sure you have
plenty of tape and batteries on hand, and you’re ready to go. You
should tell your relatives what you’re doing, of course, and get their
permission to record their conversations, but you don’t need to set up
a formal agenda or keep to any strict deadlines. Try to keep the
interview sessions as spontaneous, conversational, and casual as
possible.
Don’t forget the props. This is an excellent time to get out old photo albums, diaries, and other mementos, to stir memories and trigger anecdotes.
Involve your children in the project if you can. If
your children are unwilling, best not to force the issue. But if you
can turn the project into a multi-generational family event, it will be
more meaningful — and fun — for everyone involved.
Be sensitive to your relative’s feelings. The
advantage of launching an oral history project during the holiday
season could be a drawback as well: Holidays can unleash powerful
feelings of loss, regret, and sadness (as well as joy, gratitude, and
love). Check in frequently with your relative to see how the project is
affecting her.
 I’d love to read any of your suggestions and also how it turned out. Have a great get together.