The past few days, while I was resting on the couch, I watched Joyce Meyers Show, she had on Gary Chapman. They were discussing the Five Love Languages.
Below is his website you can learn more about it and take a test, to find out what your predominate language is.
It makes so much sense when you think about it. I realized my predominate language is Quality Time, I need the person to look me in the eye while I'm talking. I need their attention, they don't have to agree with me, just SHOW me that they are interested in what I'm saying. Also my hubby and son can tell me a thousand times a day they love me, and taking out the garbage, doing the dishes, picking up a pizza for dinner, show me they are thinking about me!
I also thought about my parents, and my sister's language, and how many misconceptions I have because we spoke different languages.

We all need to feel loved, and if we are not, well it might be more about the fact our partners are "speaking" different languages.
Even with feeling God's love, noting makes me feel LOVED more then that unexpected surprise that just shows up. Then I say THANK YOU GOD and I really feels God's love. Some people can read scriptures and get that feeling, (words of affirmation)
So if you want a better relationship with the people you love, you might want to find out more about this.


Here are the Five Languages of Love.

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Touch
3. Quality Time
4. Gifts
5. Service


The leading author in biblical marriage counseling speaks love in your language. With over thirty years of experience in marriage counseling, Dr. Gary Chapman has worked closely with thousands of couples struggling with countless issues. But at the heart of every marriage he has encountered–including his own–rests the same core longing: all people need to feel loved


https://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

https://www.fivelovelanguages.com/index2.html