WE
FORGET

We
quickly forget the stranger whose smile lifted our spirits
and helped us get through the day.

We
nearly ignore the kind driver who provided us the courtesy
of slowing their progress and waving us into their lane.

What
would happen if we gave those moments pause? Thanked them
silently? Extolled their virtues within ourselves?

Would
we become more aware of other people just like them, who,
let’s say, make our experience at stores more pleasant?
Our phone conversations to customer service departments
less stressful? Our meal at a restaurant more enjoyable?

There
are so many people who are doing kind things every day.
Yet, because there are also those who remind us of past
disappointments, or because we are caught up in the chatter
of our busy lives, we far too often fail to become an
active witness to the thoughtful efforts that the every-day
person puts forth.

Although
it certainly would be nice if we could expect everyone
to treat us with the politeness we desire, we need to
recognize that every single person serving us, passing
us, moving forward in the world with us; every single
person, including us, has personal issues that sometimes
interfere with their ability to be as positive as both
we and they would prefer.

But
if we make a point to NOTICE… If we take even the
briefest moment to internally thank those whose attitudes
are positive, encouraging, or helpful, a palpable change
occurs. Like a refreshing breeze, it passes over us and
wafts on to the next person, who is also in need of its
restorative powers.

I
want to notice. So, today, I am making a list of the many
people who have used a funny quip to lighten my spirit
at work. I am including those who have paused politely
when I crossed the street as a pedestrian, or stood patiently
while holding a door. Those who have created a television
commercial that made me laugh, or written gentle stories
of courage and hope. These kind souls are passing on what
they are able. They are sharing the joy and thankfulness
they feel today, and by doing so, are offering the same
encouragement to us.

Today,
I will mentally thank the world for all the little gifts
I took for granted when they occurred. And, I am offering
this little note as my apology for not noticing and embracing
them, the moment they happened.

Tomorrow,
I resolve to appreciate them AS they occur, and to pass
them on to another!


~ By N. O. Tate © 2007 (Long-time Inspiration Line
Subscriber)