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Low-carbon Love

Low-carbon was the hot topic in 2009, and it has become the life style in 2010, it is replied to every field of work. Low-carbon life, then comes the low-carbon love. Nowadays, more and more white-collar call themselves as low-carbon boy or low-carbon girl, and they are fall in love with low carbon attitude.

The core content of low-carbon(LC for short)is reducing emissions, and when we are in love, what can we do to be more healthy and happy with your lover.
Low-carbon love means the love with high effect and low cost, LC love is not just a concept of thrift but a new love view.

1、Reduce the psychological comparisons

The unrealistically comparison brings the high “carbon”, here, comparison not only means we compare with the people around us but also the competition between different, such as, our girlfriend’s husband gifts her a LV bag, then we force our husbands buy the same one, too, just because we don’t want to be the country girls, or we will feel that our life are not happy anymore of these demands can’t be contented.

And some lovers will compare their wage and the result is that the one will be the leader in their love story when he or she can earn more money.
They DO NOT know that such stupid comparison sometimes will hurt the affection between them.

2、Reduce the One-time love

In order to realize the LC life, we call out the Reduction of One-time----Throw-away lunchbox, Disposable paper cup, plastic shopping bags……and in relationship; we should also reduce the One-time love. in this busy modern society, it might be extravagant hopes to fall in love completely, so then we start to look for one time passionate encounter……it not only destroy the love but also result the high carbon emissions.

According to a survey, the lovelorn men and women always are in depression, men will smoke and drink more than ever and women often choose a shopping spree as their heroin. So, reduce the one-time love and let’s love more reasonable and happier…….

3、increase the chance to approach the nature

Psychology has already confirmed that living in the steel and concrete cities for a long time, people will become depressed and always feel tired. We may become more harsh with people, which easily lead to irritability, depression and other negative emotions.

Psychologists recommend that people should be closer to nature to relax our soul. Lovers should share a time, approach the nature, and open the mind, accept each other better. Approach nature does not mean that we have to stay away from the city and remote to villages. In fact, there are many green park around us, lovers can go to the park to have a walk, you needn’t drive there and can protect the environment…….:)

4、increase the chance to meet each other.

Some marriage experts recommended to have physical contact with your GF or BF, after all, text message, e-mail, telephone and other communication media maybe can’t express people’s emotions directly. Due to improper communication, the misunderstandings and conflicts will arise negative emotions, which may lead to the end of love. But the face to face communication will through body language, facial expressions and other ways to enable the feelings more intuitive, and save electricity and carbon emissions.

In a relationship, if we are good, we will decrease the demand of the outsides.

So let’s make our love healthier and happier with LC…………





posted on Aug 21, 2010 12:52 AM ()

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Okay. Hold out for good love and don't settle for less.
comment by elderjane on Feb 15, 2011 6:31 AM ()

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