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Robert Frost
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There is a natural order of things in this life for all of us. Â When, for whatever reason, we make decisions that go counter to that natural order, we set in motion a path for our lives that can only lead to heartache.
We each are fated to meet someone who becomes the "love of our life." That person is the one with whom we are supposed to be; and, if we are lucky, we marry, have a family and are together until death.Â
Unfortunately, Â some of us separate for a plethora of reasons. Without a doubt, however, the two biggest scourges that lead to problems are sex and parents.
When parents interfere and either party listens, the stage is set for alteration of the natural order. The soul speaks to us through our feelings telling us when we are off course. Not listening and correcting one's errors leads to nothing but trouble. Psychologists who have studied cases of loves of highschool and college students whose parents interfered discovered several disturbing trends. From that point on, that person's life is set on a course that leads to mistake after mistake because he/she is no longer following the path his life is supposed to follow.
In addition, he/she will spend the rest of his life using his first love as the standard by which he judges all women/men; but he will never find the perfect substitute.
Thus, he will put off having children, often to the point of waiting until he really is too old to have a child. He may never have children or will only have a single child.Â
 His life will continue going from bad to worse until the day he dies unless he comes to the realization that he has upset the natural  preordained path for his life by following his head instead of his heart.
Affairs of the heart should be directed by the heart--and nothing else. It is never too late until it is too late.
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