Ok, we'll come to the title in a sec...for the moment I have a beef! I just saw the Departed with Matt Damon and Leonardo Decaprio....great movie but the ended really PISSES me OFF! GGGGGrrrrrrrrrrneeeeeessssssss!!!!!

He's back, that would be for my DD, Her dad has not seen her in 13+ years and called Thursday. Him and I picked up our conversation like it had been yesterday, scary thing? So did they! He tells her he owns a business and goes to Cuba yearly and has been doing great. Really? Hmmm, I have not had a penny of CS [child support] in all those years and yet HE is doing FABULOUS!

He plans on seeing her before she turns 17 in Dec....think it's too much to ask him to buy her a car?

I need to add to this cause I am so frikking torn. When Andy and I were a couple he was such a con artist and a huge player. He would call me after we split and inform me he was gonna kill himself if I wouldn't go back with him. He was a loser. A con, a guy that spoke big but acted small.

When I left him he was shooting up. I found needle marks on him a lot and got scared for me and my kids and hightailed.

I worked, he did not.

Can a person like that change? I WANT to believe it but....

My baby is going to be the only casualty of this. She is going to be so hurt and un-trusting of us all if he is not what he says, and she DOES believe him....she thinks after one conversation that he is fantastic.

Oh God? What do I do?


Footnote

Looser I am; I just called every number he left and came up blank. He sucks, but now that he has talked to my baby (DD) she thinks he is gold. Oh Lord, what a can of worms I have opened by letting her answer her facebook. Seriously don't know what to do on this and think I may seek proffesional help.

Yes...it's got me that frigged up!